Tricking is at an all time high

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I see the Coli Brehettes be :smh: at dudes tricking.
 

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My point is what parameters make a simp?
Giving gratuitous validation in hopes of sex or female attention.

Taking a woman out on a date is not simping.

Giving a woman flowers and writing her poem to get the date when all you needed to do was ask is simping.

Simping isn't inherently bad though if you actually reach your goal.

The problem with simps nowadays is that there are too many of them and they are simping on too many women at the same time.

This ends up ruining the market as women have no choice but to increase their standards. She can't fukk all 281 simps in her inbox, so she needs a way to weed some of them out.

There was a time, before social media was this big, where you could simp on a woman and she'd actually feel special.

We need a thread on that.
 

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So a man should know that a woman really fukk with him before doing things for her, right?
A man should know that a woman really fukk with him before giving her the time of day, let alone "doing things" for her. Like I already said, someone else is already doing things for her. If she's really feeling you, you won't have to. It won't even come up in conversation, and if she fukk with you, it never will.
 

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Giving gratuitous validation in hopes of sex or female attention.

Taking a woman out on a date is not simping.

Giving a woman flowers and writing her poem to get the date when all you needed to do was ask is simping.

Simping isn't inherently bad though if you actually reach your goal.

The problem with simps nowadays is that there are too many of them and they are simping on too many women at the same time.

This ends up ruining the market as women have no choice but to increase their standards. She can't fukk all 281 simps in her inbox, so she needs a way to weed some of them out.

There was a time, before social media was this big, where you could simp on a woman and she'd actually feel special.

We need a thread on that.

Yeah but we live in a hedonistic society that tells men they are losers if they dont have a high body count

So of course dudes are going to try to smash however they can. They just dont know the lame shyt they are doing doesn't work.

Plus other groups (whites, asians, latinos) don't care as much about breaking bread for p*ssy. Porn and pop culture also contributes to men putting women and sex itself on a pedestal.

The only thing that will fix this is a rollback on social media, arranged marriages or legalizing prostitution.
 

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Agreed! When should a man and woman have this type of discussion?
A man should know that a woman really fukk with him before giving her the time of day, let alone "doing things" for her. Like I already said, someone else is already doing things for her. If she's really feeling you, you won't have to. It won't even come up in conversation, and if she fukk with you, it never will.

This ^

It'soen of those things where, you will be able to tell with experience/confidence. If you are never too flustered with a woman, you can tell whether or not she is using you. If you are too flustered, you'll be blinded to her ways and her lack of reciprocation.
 

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Yeah but we live in a hedonistic society that tells men they are losers if they dont have a high body count

So of course dudes are going to try to smash however they can. They just dont know the lame shyt they are doing doesn't work.

Plus other groups (whites, asians, latinos) don't care as much about breaking bread for p*ssy. Porn and pop culture also contributes to men putting women and sex itself on a pedestal.

The only thing that will fix this is a rollback on social media, arranged marriages or legalizing prostitution.
nah, it ain't that extreme. We just gotta help dudes know what's attractive.

I made a long post about it here that's sort of related: https://www.thecoli.com/threads/stop-saying-women-dont-know-what-they-want.717455/#post-40235884

Basically, in short, help men have more masculine traits again.
 

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nah, it ain't that extreme. We just gotta help dudes know what's attractive.

I made a long post about it here that's sort of related: https://www.thecoli.com/threads/stop-saying-women-dont-know-what-they-want.717455/#post-40235884

Basically, in short, help men have more masculine traits again.


Women want men who are popping and smashing other women. Masculine traits will help a bit but most men will reject self-control and stoicism for big booty bytches

Expect Cali or NY to decriminalize sex work within the next five years
 

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I mean if he getting some. That's just the cost to play it would be the same if he spent that money on dates so :yeshrug:. Now if he ain't scrapping the guts out then he just tricking. I just bought a female kid some food but I did it more out of regret. I know he heard me in there tossing his mom around :mjlit:
 

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A man should know that a woman really fukk with him before giving her the time of day, let alone "doing things" for her. Like I already said, someone else is already doing things for her. If she's really feeling you, you won't have to. It won't even come up in conversation, and if she fukk with you, it never will.

Interesting.

What are some signs a man need to pay attention to for him to know if a woman fukk with him?
 

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I'm kinda doing some self promotion here (might make a thread probably) but what I wrote here also explains why this is at a all-time high

The real reason is that sadly, what makes men sexually attractive (assertiveness, dominance, confidence, brashness, "big dom energy" swagger, ), has a lot in common with problematic or toxic behaviors (arrogance, selfishness, not being kind or sensitive, being an emotional robot) that society is trying to fix.

And when you have society trying to fix toxic behavior, regular sexy masculine behaviors that have a lot in common with it are going to also go away as a byproduct, creating a lot of dudes that are plain and have nothing to them.

We don't want to admit it, but there is some overlap between what women find sexually attractive and what is considered toxic :yeshrug:

in short, society is more equal & progressive, but dating and sexual attraction is still very conservative
:manny:

EDIT: society in general is also going away from things that gave men masculine qualities. Internet pervasiveness and PORN has the removed that natural incentive for dudes to have to actually go outside and be confident and assertive to approach girls

EDIT 2: on average, generally speaking, women usually prefer men that are stronger than them, that earn more than them, that are taller than them, that are more emotionally stronger than them (e.g. don't cry as much as they do), etc.

Those traits are also less common now that society is more equal, unfortunately.:manny:
 

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They should have NEVER allowed Lil Wayne and Gucci Mane and Future to blow up. They cuff and trick on hoes and made it acceptable.

Back in the,day, Uncle Luke had orgies with naturally beautiful women AND NOT PAY A GODDAMN DIME.


you don't know that for sure. Yall be romanticizing some of these old heads......
 
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