Tricking vs Simping Debate: Me and my boy had a crazy argument, what do ya'll think?

[EastsideRio]

I was telling him how my long time, jumpoff/friend just got a job as a concierge at my building. We met in like 2013 when she was 18, and I was about 30. We started off dating and kicking it, butI didn't want to get serious with her bcuz she was too young and didnt' really have much going on beside being fine. She's one of these fine broke young DC/MD stallions thats alwas switching jobs but I love smashing her. She comes over chills, walk around naked. She always comes thru and has been for 10 years.


Anyways I tell him that sometimes I give her money bcuz I know she's broke. 20$, 40$ sometimes for food, uber to and from my house or whatever. He's like man you simping. I'm like how tf is that simping. Simping is chasing and spending money on a chick that isn't really feeling you. I said if anything, i'm tricking or a sugar daddy.

That sugar good too!

He says he doesnt get down like that, bcuz he too playa, but this fool just got back from DR tricking.

He says it's different bcuz it's a one-time thing, but I'm giving the same girl money over and over.

He says he can get sex free, i'm like I can too, but for most part. You not going to be smashing a fine chick for 10 years without giving her something. Time, money, relationship or something. I tell him, show me a chick youve smashed for years and never gave anything to?? Bet she's ugly. He couldn't.

He does pull chicks, we all do but none as bad as mine youngin., And he has to take these new chicks out on dates in DC ($100+) most of the time. and not guaranteed to smash and a lot of them are old and mid. I date too, but I love my youngin.


Who's worse off him or me?

Neither, y’all both getting p*ssy.

Simping is bowing down to these women’s every need just because they got a vagina, kind of like Merch on the very first Best Man movie in 1999. Revolving your life around a woman. Doesn’t sound like either one of you is doing that.

 

[Mowgli]

U didn't deny anything I said tho
I am insane but I'm 2 broke 2 b high

I'm not going to debate delusions in your imbalanced mind. Take the first step. Open your pills. Throw the voice killer down your throat and become normal again. You're insane and need help. Call your mother. Give me her number and your government name so I can call her. You're sick

 

[maxamusa]

is OP a @Luken alt account? instead of the life of luxury this account he posts his romantic side

 

[lord canon]

I was telling him how my long time, jumpoff/friend just got a job as a concierge at my building. We met in like 2013 when she was 18, and I was about 30. We started off dating and kicking it, butI didn't want to get serious with her bcuz she was too young and didnt' really have much going on beside being fine. She's one of these fine broke young DC/MD stallions thats alwas switching jobs but I love smashing her. She comes over chills, walk around naked. She always comes thru and has been for 10 years.


Anyways I tell him that sometimes I give her money bcuz I know she's broke. 20$, 40$ sometimes for food, uber to and from my house or whatever. He's like man you simping. I'm like how tf is that simping. Simping is chasing and spending money on a chick that isn't really feeling you. I said if anything, i'm tricking or a sugar daddy.

That sugar good too!

He says he doesnt get down like that, bcuz he too playa, but this fool just got back from DR tricking.

He says it's different bcuz it's a one-time thing, but I'm giving the same girl money over and over.

He says he can get sex free, i'm like I can too, but for most part. You not going to be smashing a fine chick for 10 years without giving her something. Time, money, relationship or something. I tell him, show me a chick youve smashed for years and never gave anything to?? Bet she's ugly. He couldn't.

He does pull chicks, we all do but none as bad as mine youngin., And he has to take these new chicks out on dates in DC ($100+) most of the time. and not guaranteed to smash and a lot of them are old and mid. I date too, but I love my youngin.


Who's worse off him or me?

Is shorty/jumpoff fukking with anyone else ? If shes not you should make her serious

 

[FluffyEyes]

A 10 year long friend with benefits

Where is this young lady's mentors at?? They left her for dead.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

Gotta pay to play...BUT you're smashing so it's negated.

 

[Bigblackted4]

Yeah what your doing is neither trick nor simping because you basically in a situationship. Now your boy on the other hand is straight simping, if your taking women out on $100+ dates without a guarantee of sex that’s the worst position you can be in. Your just draining your pockets for the possibility of sex. I say this in every thread I’d rather be a trick than a simp but I couldn’t live with being either long term. Think about it in this way, Bandman Kevin vs dude that spent 5k on a broad and didn’t even get to fukk.

 

[Silver Surfer]

You and your boy sound like down low

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Kodak voice

I cant even trick in peace

Everybody notice me

 

[skyrunner1]

A 10 year long friend with benefits

Where is this young lady's mentors at?? They left her for dead.

Happens more than you think.. Women dont care for ltr anymore..

Most likely they took a couple breaks while she got in a couple relationships here and there but he is the consistency she comes back to when that ends.. Atleast when that has happened for me thats how the long term fwb have played out.. They always come back.. then try to change terms when they have another situation possibly, doesnt work so they go try that for a bit.. You might even get an invite to wedding

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I'm not going to debate delusions in your imbalanced mind. Take the first step. Open your pills. Throw the voice killer down your throat and become normal again. You're insane and need help. Call your mother. Give me her number and your government name so I can call her. You're sick

Still didn't deny that u r a naked mole rat that buys lady boy bussy in Thailand. Ur the 1 that's sick

 

[Mowgli]

Still didn't deny that u r a naked mole rat that buys lady boy bussy in Thailand. Ur the 1 that's sick

Shut up bytch.

Say ahhh take your medicine and shut your stupid ass up

 

[MajesticLion]

All of this surely happened.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

30 on 18 sounds...

 

[Egomaniacal1]

Is shorty/jumpoff fukking with anyone else ? If shes not you should make her serious

In 10 years?!! You know she been getting it in with other nikkas.

And to me that’s the aspect that makes it simping…you basically saying you don’t believe she would have stayed fukking with you all these years if you wasn’t breaking her off…..but why would I care to pay a whore to stick around?? Especially if you’re playa like that and can get other chicks. She’s stuck around as long as she has because you are a simp….so much so that you lived in Louisiana and was still paying her while she in another state getting back shots from other dudes??

No judgment it just is what it is

And I get it, you really like this chick…so why didn’t you cuff her if she’s that special to you? Just the age? Nikka you sound crazy citing her age as the reason for not being serious yet still carrying on a 10 year entanglement?! Make it make sense my guy.