True or false: women treat men who are in good shape as jump-offs and not serious relationship material.

[Umoja]

I've had some friends who thought getting into shape would finally get them a girlfriend, but what happens is that the women they get end up not wanting to get serious with them when they feel ready to commit.

Think about what you said carefully.

When your friends were out of shape, they were not getting women. When they got in shape, they were able to get girlfriends but were not able to tie them down long term.

How did you reach the conclusion that being in shape is the problem. Their results actually improved when they got in shape which challenges your hypothesis and supports the argument their personality plays a role.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Think about what you said carefully.

When your friends were out of shape, they were not getting women. When they got in shape, they were able to get girlfriends but were not able to tie them down long term.

How did you reach the conclusion that being in shape is the problem. Their results actually improved when they got in shape which challenges your hypothesis and supports the argument their personality plays a role.

Their looks got their foot in the door, but looks aren't always a guarantee of success. Women are famously bad at communicating in plain language, so it could be aspects of personality or dude just got put in the recreational use category.

 

[NatiboyB]

Remember women break rules for the men they truly want and create rules for all other guys.

OP your homies are winning the game.

 

[JuvenileHell]

Nope

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Their looks got their foot in the door, but looks aren't always a guarantee of success. Women are famously bad at communicating in plain language, so it could be aspects of personality or dude just got put in the recreational use category.

Unless your friends were just complete sloppy fat fukks, they still could have pulled women. Them getting in shape shouldn't have changed more outside of frequency or quality. Them not being able to keep a woman around, says a lot about how they carried themselves, talked and/or acted around women. We've all seen dudes in there that turned a "yes" into a "no" just based on how they conducted themselves.

 

[BelieveBeOK]

An in-shape lame is still a lame.

These are three things that will get women to fall for you

1) Game
2) Financial Security
3) Physical looks

Women will trade off between the three and prioritize some over others depending on the environment, their current circumstances, age, preferences etc.

The smart thing to do is to get all three up in order to maximize your pool of potential partners.

 

[Chrishaune]

Fresh and Fit had a whole panel talking about this yesterday. Pretty much exposed that women have categories of guys they will let hit it quick and good guys they will try to make wait for a relationship. Basic whore mentality.

Nothing new about it. Women can be just like men in that they will just see a dude as sex.

 

[No Ma’am]

 

[High Art]

Some women are like that since intimidation is a real thing but a decent amount aren't. Get good at identifying who are and let them go since they're doing you a favor in leaving or dropping you.

 

[Iverson_64]

Can't say I relate to this at all tbh.

 

[MajesticLion]

Anecdotal and poorly reasoned to a fare-thee-well.

 

[Xcenai]

I don't know about that

 

[Dameon Farrow]

fkn Coli logic

I hate ya'll

Odd ass thread premise

 

[Blessings]

Remember women break rules for the men they truly want and create rules for all other guys.

OP your homies are winning the game.

Exactly...his homies are likely treating them like jumpoffs

 

[Studious one]

Where do y’all get shyt like this from?