Trust is not earned, its broken-agree or diagree

[valet]

So I was at men's group at my church this morning. And one of the brehs said this phrase which I never heard. And I was like dang, that's a positive way to look at life. Does anybody else look at trust this way? Like you go into any relationship based on trust until they break it.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

I disagree, because trust doesn’t come into play with strangers. Someone doesn’t become trusted until they’re vetted and vetting comes from word of mouth or direct experiences with that person.

Do you trust a C grade restaurant to not make you sick from their food? Why? They didn’t break your trust, so let them slide. *sarcasm* Nah, you don’t trust them because they haven’t earned the reputation to be trusted.

 

[Womb Raider]

Trust has to be built and earned. If you blindly trust anyone, you food outchea

 

[Ohene]

I disagree, because trust doesn’t come into play with strangers. Someone doesn’t become trusted until they’re vetted and vetting comes from word of mouth or direct experiences with that person.

Do you trust a C grade restaurant to not make you sick from their food? Why? They didn’t break your trust, so let them slide. *sarcasm* Nah, you don’t trust them because they haven’t earned the reputation to be trusted.

but how does the reputation develop? some people somewhere trusted the restaurant, and then the semblance of bad reviews cause others to not trust it

trust is always the default until something breaks it

 

[lowkey0z]

can't trust shyt with a heartbeat out here - - even when that trust is earned, you still gotta question certain shyt

 

[blockburna420]

my default settings are trust none and suspect all.

 

[Bop Gun]

Trust needs to be earned. Too many people out here telling all their personal business to every person they meet, then get mad when their business gets put out in the street.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Did the nikka have a collecition plate in his hand when he was Jesus Jewlzing?

 

[the bossman]

negative. makes no sense.

Think about your best friend. Now think about some stranger you just met. would you equally trust them?

 

[2ATMsYouSteppinOrWhat]

Agree…

I trust people until they give me a reason not to

 

[rabbid]

Unfortunately no. You should’ve asked him if he ever left his hometown or not. People like this usually have very limited engagements with people. I would replace trust with respect. Respect I do agree is broken. I try to respect everyone I come into contact with regardless of their outward appearance or behaviors.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

nikka bouta have you giving the church all your money.

 

[valet]

nikka bouta have you giving the church all your money.

 

[Regular Developer]

Nah, absolutely not. Maybe if I partition trust into different areas, maybe, but I've heard too many news reports where the neighbors are shocked about someone's criminal actions when they used to go to barbecues together.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Naw.
Not only is trust earned. But trust must be deliberately cared for and maintained.

Trust only exists to the point it is deserved.