Trust your girl while she vacations with friends, brehs

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This isn't normal. If your girls friends are whores that's one thing, why are you with her? In my experience females slut shame worse than men and most decent chicks would consider it a huge L to be with a guy and cheat on him in front of friendsbecause women like to pretend their guy is the best ever to their friends and cheating on him dispels that idea. However, if your girls friends are smuts none of that apply but if you know that you should have ran the other way. I've trusted every gf I've ever been with on vacation unless I knew our shyt was on the rocks anyway. Besides, it's easier to arrange an one way open relationship than it is to arrange one way vacation privileges and I need my international trips sans gf.
 

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regardless of gender if your partner is going on vacation without you
just END IT

RIGHT?!?!? Who in their right mind says, "Okay babe. You go ahead and go to a foreign/exotic location, drink, party, have fun... I'll wait here for ya."

That is just straight up ass backwards. If your lady does not want to share in new experiences/vacations/celebrations with you then I have no idea what to tell you.
 

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RIGHT?!?!? Who in their right mind says, "Okay babe. You go ahead and go to a foreign/exotic location, drink, party, have fun... I'll wait here for ya."

That is just straight up ass backwards. If your lady does not want to share in new experiences/vacations/celebrations with you then I have no idea what to tell you.

nowadays you are labelled as "insecure"
 

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nowadays you are labelled as "insecure"

And the very same ones who label you insecure for that, are the same ones who are guilty of it. :sas2:


Her going on any vacation with just her girlfriends or solo dolo is worthy of concern. Sure. She might not be intending to cheat or even thinking of it on the way there, but liquor + temptation can lead to bad decisions. You're at home playing NBA 2k15 in your boxers, while she's out in the streets of Barcelona living out a Disney romance with this dude named Carlos, who works at a cafe and looks like a mix between Antonio Banderas and someone from an Old Spice commercial. She comes back home from the trip, with some spring in her step and with a brand new skill set in the bedroom that got you feeling like :ohlawd: :ohlawd::ohlawd:, but wondered where all that came from and you just chalked it up to her missing you. :yeshrug:


All of a sudden, she starts acting a bit distant to you, fights come up more, and you start to put two and two together on some :ohhh:shyt. You come to the conclusion that she was doing a lot more than sight-seeing and eating pasta out there. But by then, it's too late cause the damage is done.



It's a shame, cause this happens a lot... all due to the man wanting to be 'trusting'. But like I always tell my friends, you have gut feelings for a reason. That's your intuition. Listen to it. They don't hear me tho.

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