TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT

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So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or gettin married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... he tells u he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first.... u sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking ull be the wife?

With the little he has, u ask for brazillian hair and timberland... he goes to work and goes straight to class after work...he leaves u in pyjamas n finds u in the same pyjamas.. while he studies u watch generations and isibaya...

He comes back home to find pap and chiken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his clothes ironed... the only serious conversation yall have is about the typa groceries u guys need.

The only advice u give him is "babe you need to buy new socks, the ones u bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of ur mouth..no plans of making ur own life better...yes u are pretty...no doubt about that!....so is every second girl passing by
Do u realise something... u not doing anything a maid cant do.... hes gonna finish school and the first thing hes gonna do is REPLACE HIS MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.

Thats when we gonn hear your famous last words "i was with him thru thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successfull he thinks i am nothing"
Yes ure ryt..uv always been NOTHING but a maid to him. . .
Empower urself to be the woman ur man wants to be with...a woman who wud be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!

TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT


 
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I call that.......(the cute bum effect)
I dont give a fukk how bad a chick is.....
if she dont have the drive and ambition
that I have i dont take her serious.
I have my future offspring to think about.
my babies will be picked from the richest soil..
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Meanwhile other women still got home making standards. Pawgs be submissive but sistas been taught to embrace feminism. :mjlol:

I lived with a pawg and paag both had the house looking right acted like traditional women I never enforced those roles but sistas being independent while dolo
 

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What was the male doing though?

How are the dead convo's and lack of communication, boring relationship not his fault as well?

He's working on his self, she's helping him advance by cooking, cleaning ect so he won't have to do it when he comes home. That's less stress and work for him. If she wasn't doing that for him, it would be much more difficult for him to complete his degree while working. What is he doing for her to help her advance in life?

If they agreed on her being a stay at home and him working, what is the problem with her being a stay at home like they agreed on?
 
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