Turn-Offs?

[NoirDynosaur]

- Lack of class and sophistication in style, attitude and behavior. Acting like a lady is becoming a thing of the past.
- Lack of charm. Charm is what makes someone admirable, arousing and engaging. Mental beauty. Lack of charm makes someone very unlikeable.
- Inability to pay attention to social cues
- Using mental illness as a proxy to treating others like crap. Mental instability is a hard red flag
- Negative beliefs about men "men ain't shyt" Negative affirmations in general. Nobody wants to be around someone with low emotional intelligence

@Gloxina Looks engage the eyes but a personality and character keep a person long term. The issue is a lot of "modern women" have short term personalities instead of long term. Short term = only for recreational use while neglecting the traits that make them wifey material.

 

[VegetasHairline]

- Sleeps with others but only in front of your face (this is a huge no-no)
- Uses funeral urn for meth
- Raises 1 leg to urine on your car, stripping the paint
- Says things like "My family line is full of spitfires" while drinking from red Solo cup
- Uses her love box for drug muling for the rush

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

NOT Smoking (cannabis)

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

It's also an immediate red flag for me if she listens to thot-rap. I'm a hip hop fan and will defend it, but I've never met a woman who listened to stuff like city girls or ice spice who didn't turn out to be a massive headache.

Not being able to read the room and conform to it. If it's a quiet room, don't turn up your phone. It's a sign of a lack of empathy. If you're trying to concentrate, you wouldn't want people talking loudly or turning up their audio. I can never be with a woman who can't put herself in other people's shoes.

It should also go without saying that if she's on social media consuming relationship content that's a no for me.

An obsession with using mental health terminology she barely understands. There are two types of people who go to therapy:
1. The people who want to learn hard truths about themselves and get tools to improve
2. The people who want justifications for their toxic behavior that they can use so they never change. For them they can use therapeutic language while being abusive.

 

[CrushedGroove]

Hey breh. You listen here


I don't care if this kinda malarkey butters your bread, it gets no welcome mat rolled out over in these parts


These are things that will completely be off putting to me. I don't want it, you can keep it away from me.

 

[KingsOfKings]

 

[King_Kamala61]

Little Ass Areolas and Light Small/Big Areolas

Areolae looking like a man's nipple

She don't ride dikk

She won't spit in my mouth

She won't eat the Creole Food I fix

Always wanna geaux out and spend my money


A jesus freak....even worse if she West African

She gets jealous of me wanting to do copious amounts of drugs and paint my art

She gets jealous/mad I would spend money on sex workers for muses and art supplies instead of taking her out or buying her shyt....you the side chick bytch....my Art is my Wife and Goddess

 

[Formerly known as...]

Smoking.

 

[DerrtySouthpaw]

No ass
Don’t workout
Stupid tattoos ( I love tats just not random stupid shyt)
Piercings
Lack of self or situational awareness
Cares only about themself and what benefits them
Talks about other people for no reason
Bad or no relationship with family