Turning hoes into husbands?

[Arishok]

if you went to a amusement park and everyone in front of you got in for free, but when it was your turn they said nah you have to pay how would you feel?

if your sleeping with every treyvathian, javon and lefranklin and they didn't have to do anything then how can you expect Matthew from It department with his certs to pay with commitment and being exclusive and not saying but treyvathian javona nd lefranklin got it for free

who is giving it up to all these people? I gave it up to ONE guy and I already stated that I'm not having sex without being in a committed relationship anymore so why are we still even having this discussion .

 

[MikelArteta]

who is giving it up to all these people? I gave it up to ONE guy and I already stated that I'm not having sex without being in a committed relationship anymore so why are we still even having this discussion .

its a intervention trying to mold you into a decent black woman

 

[Arishok]

its a intervention trying to mold you into a decent black woman

But after that guy I realized that whether I'm in a relationship or not, I want a guy who will respect my body. If the only way to get that respect is to be in a committed relationship, that's what I'll do. But I've had this revelation months ago, so no you're not helping. I made mistakes in my life and I learn from those mistakes, there's this little thing called maturing. I can't expect to know ANYTHING and EVERYTHING about myself, relationship, or even sex if I don't participate in those things. I personally don't make sex a prize nor put my p*ssy on a pedestal but it seems society still does so

 

[MikelArteta]

But after that guy I realized that whether I'm in a relationship or not, I want a guy who will respect my body. If the only way to get that respect is to be in a committed relationship, that's what I'll do. But I've had this revelation months ago, so no you're not helping. I made mistakes in my life and I learn from those mistakes, there's this little thing called maturing. I can't expect to know ANYTHING and EVERYTHING about myself, relationship, or even sex if I don't participate in those things. I personally don't make sex a prize nor put my p*ssy on a pedestal but it seems society still does so

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

aint no such thing as mail order husbands

There is

 

[Arishok]

Doing all of this still doesn't take away from the fact that you called black women undesirable though .

 

[MikelArteta]

Doing all of this still doesn't take away from the fact that you called black women undesirable though .

your wrong I did not, I said black women are viewed the least desirable in dating interracial.
The same how asian men are.


thanks for twisting my words.

 

[Arishok]

your wrong I did not, I said black women are viewed the least desirable in dating interracial.
The same how asian men are.


thanks for twisting my words.

You were basically telling me that I couldn't find a quality black men with no kids for whatever reason I can't remember and that I can't find quality non black men because black women are undesirable.

I don't know what you were trying to say in that other thread but it sounded to me like you were saying black women have no hope of getting married simply because they are black which is why I asked what was your point.

 

[MikelArteta]

You were basically telling me that I couldn't find a quality black men with no kids for whatever reason I can't remember and that I can't find quality non black men because black women are undesirable.

I don't know what you were trying to say in that other thread but it sounded to me like you were saying black women have no hope of getting married simply because they are black which is why I asked what was your point.

is that so :mugabe:

 

[Arishok]

is that so :mugabe:

Yeah just re read the stuff you were saying to me at least that's how I took it, glad we cleared it up though.

 

[BlackBieber]

A person with no self control in any area is not a quality mate.

well i have no self-control in gettin money

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

well i have no self-control in gettin money

 

[BlackBieber]

due to religious reason i want my hubby to be a virgin its gonna be hard to find one though cuz of today's society and the stigma that comes with being a virgin man.

ur sex life when u get married

 

[Arishok]

So what I learned from this is, ladies keep your p*ssy on a pedestal because men still do

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Don't ever have sex so you can marry a man who only values you by what's in between your legs brehettes