Turning in my Fatherhood card, brehs

[Professor Emeritus]

It's appealing to a perceived shared morality

All men don't share the same ideas of fatherhood and manhood

Many other countries dont have this child worship culture like america

This whole concept of suffering for your kid is dumb
I suffer for a kid who is only gonna have to sacrifice and suffer for their child. That's a depressing ass generational cycle.

As if, "fukk over your kid so that they fukk over their kid" isn't a MUCH more depressing generational cycle.

Hmmm....let's look at families where the fathers repeatedly sacrificed for their kids and compare them to families where the fathers repeatedly abandoned their kids and see which family produces more depressing results.

 

[Elle Driver]

You gotta be mentally strong to deal with having a child. You sound emotionally immature. You got a lot of growing up to do internally.

 

[Mowgli]

tired of drama, tired of fighting with baby mama, tired of her turning my kid on me, tired of all this shyt

its not all that its cracked up to be if you in the wrong situation. Just a prison sentence.

Isn't it true you don't know Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu?

Im with your wife. Its clearly your fault

 

[Detroit Wave]

Parents like op and his baby mama exist outchea and my bro and his wife can’t even go full term

 

[BigE214]

How old is your little one?

 

[STEVE]

I don't like children and don't ever want to have children.

You know what I do? NOT CUM INSIDE WOMEN.

 

[luckyse7enz]

I mean...we can talk about condoms and abortions all day, but if the kid's old enough to be turned against the father then the kid's old enough to speak.

What's the actual drama with your kid's mom, @Dog Based Gremlin? If you two getting into it because you still want a relationship with one another, you've got to toss that idea in the bushes. Always a mistake. The only priority and business that either of you have with one another is the well-being of your child. Any bickering about anything between the two of you is arbitrary when you look at the big picture.

Whether you're living under the same roof or not, you'll end up having to provide for the kid whether it's willingly or unwillingly. The only question you need to ask yourself is whether you give a fukk about what your kid thinks of you...but know that, regardless of what her mother tells her, you're still her dad and you're only obligated to be as good and honest with her as you can because she's half-you.

You may think she'll turn on you, but all you can do is dope dad shyt. Kids are easy shills, so she'll rock with you as long as you're not a dikk because she only gets one true dad. Just be consistent with her if you care to do so. Otherwise, be willing to fukk off...but don't be wishy-washy about it and don't waste time arguing with her mom ever. You'll never get anywhere that way if you're actually in the right.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Breh shut the hell up...

This is purely virtue signaling. Are you a parent?? How old are you??

I don’t feel comfortable divulging those details to a dikk detective.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Have kids brehs

enjoy that 18 to life sentence

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

I don’t feel comfortable divulging those details to a dikk detective.

That's what I thought, p*ssy. And this is coming from a person naming themselves throbbing hood on a male dominated website. Ok buddy.

 

[The Radiant One]

lol fatherless nikkas if OP don't want to be there in the child's life who are you to tell him.

"Man up and be a father." lol emotional hoe babble. You nikkas better not believe in adoption or abortion



bytches be taking babies lives and nikka just want to pay. LOL YOU CAN'T FORCE LOVE

 

[Spliff]

Just know your effort to be in her life will be remembered when she becomes older and starts asking real questions.

You don't wanna be on the wrong side of history.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Not many will speak on this, and it won’t be popular, but a good portion of these dudes out here making these babies, don’t want to go through the courts, because they want to be able to pay when they want and what they want. Same goes for visitation rights. Many, want to be able to pick up and have the child when they please, while still having the mama be the child’s place of residence. They pretty much want to live their lives, and provide minimal care

It’s just easier to complain about the BM, and say she’s doing me dirty.

With that said, there are shytty BM’s out here; a lot.

A lot of women have said this a lot on here, but of course we get attacked for it. This thread is the perfect example. OP has yet to say, why exactly he hasn’t gone for a custody or visitation agreement. Courts are pro-child having a relationship with both parents. Even abusive parents are given visitation rights. Literally nothing stopping him, or anyone else on here who has similar stories, from being able to have access to their child but

 

[Benefited]

Woman is the child of man,meanwhile you are trying to turn in your fatherhood card on your actual child who came from you. What hope is there for you to raise a proper woman with your current mentality?Practically 0,very little masculinity involved here. You might as well leave.

Alot of the people in this thread mocking you allow the system and their baby moms to have full control over their child to,they are in the same boat but just think they have some control. If you aren't with your baby mother you have no control,period. So you will be in good company:respect:

 

[ThrobbingHood]

That's what I thought, p*ssy. And this is coming from a person naming themselves throbbing hood on a male dominated website. Ok buddy.

The day I care what about what an ex-con thinks about me...