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OK husband
Cheated
Fell for the imaginary baby twice
Good job
Stable
Spoils me like crazy


Baby daddy
Pos
Deadbeat dad
Can't keep a job
Drug problem
Look at this woman y'all. How is this even a debate? :skip: How is your baby daddy even an option besides the fact that he's your kid's father? This is why we ride for that #GMB because it never fails. My opinion is you should stay with your husband depending on how many times he cheated. If it's more than once then cancel him. But your BD shouldn't even be an option, the nikka sounds like a loser, you wylin.
 

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blended family. shyt works

Don't deny them the opportunity to see their children and be apart of their lives.

You'll regret it, and your children will blame you always. They always blame the parent that they don't know, and always empathize with the parent that left.
 

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Stay with your husband for the financial stability and just do what you want on the side. He established that you have an open marriage due to his affair. He really was going to have a babby on you:damn:
Do you really want to go back to that lifestyle with the DB? Stabbing nikkas (was that your 1st husband or this DB), carry 1/4 pounds in "the other purse":francis: nah don't do it. You shouldn't have to wait for a man to "get it together" at 35+ years old to be a family again. He should have got it together when you daughter was born
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Bd will automatically get the :camby: . I need stability and security. Who has time to be stressing and shyt cuz a man can keep a drug habit better than he can keep a job.

Husband can't be out here recklessly fukking raw and skeeting in bishes. Thats just disrespectful.

If it was me I probably wouldn't go back to either one but in this picture husband has a better chance.
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At least go with the one who has a job


Try to be a family with your baby daddy if it doesn't work out then try to be a family again with your ex husband if it doesn't work out then get a girlfriend.
Extraordinary advice
 

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Look at this woman y'all. How is this even a debate? :skip: How is your baby daddy even an option besides the fact that he's your kid's father? This is why we ride for that #GMB because it never fails. My opinion is you should stay with your husband depending on how many times he cheated. If it's more than once then cancel him. But your BD shouldn't even be an option, the nikka sounds like a loser, you wylin.
Bd makes me pancakes erryday but thank u for ur feedback.. This is why I come to yall
 

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Your husband is your husband. The fact that its a question is a problem. How you gonna pledge to be with someone forever then even pose this like its a choice?

Because that fool stepped outside his marriage.

When you pledge to honor and then do that shyt, those vows are void in my eyes.
 

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Bd makes me pancakes erryday but thank u for ur feedback.. This is why I come to yall
I figured he was blowing your back out and doing other trivial shyt like making pancakes :francis: I assume you're staying with your BD right now? At the end of the day, do what you think would be best for your kids ma :o:
 
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