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HarlemHottie said:
I reject the Madonna-whore dichotomy. I can't be decent and be fun, sexually adventurous, and exciting? No disrespect to you, but this is why bm ain't wifing up 'decent' bw, cuz they be dry and boring. :stopitslime:

Bw are the mothers of humanity. Among many other fine attributes, we are the literal avatar of the procreative urge, true earth goddesses, the color of fertile soil. The same way bm feel that they represent true masculinity in their very person. Like yall, we'd be weakening ourselves by denying it, giving up one of our inherent superpowers. Why would we do that?? Do we advise bm to slouch so as to be less "scary"? :childplease:

All black girls should be taught the dances of their grandmothers, from Rio de Janeiro to Lagos to, yes, Miami. :mjpls: Should they perform them damn near naked in public? Probably not. :ld:
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African Peasant said:
You can be decent, fun and sexy ( i don't know what "sexually adventurous" mean) without trying to be Trina.

Black men are not marrying decent black women because they are simps and mislead. That's why you have simpleton marrying and gassin up strippers and hookers. A lot of black men will find any woman who does not engage in scandalous behaviors boring; the same way a lot of black women won't find black men who do not engage in thuggery interesting. They will be seen as lame.

Those things, in reality, are the result of the dysfunction in our communities. There are perversions of positive traits: sensuality for female became whoredom and virility for male became thuggery.

As a female, you need and you have the right to be sexy and sensual. But that's not Trina. Miami thotery culture, since we're talking about Miami, is indecent and no woman of value should take part of it.

And I think, by reading your posts, that you're a woman of value. So :ufdup:
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"Sexually adventurous", for a certain class of AA women, is evinced by being conversant in thot culture. I don't make the rules, I just follow them.:yeshrug: There's a niche of high earning AA men who are from the hood and therefore respond to hood mating calls, ie ratchet culture. If one wants one of those men, one must balance the two. :yeshrug:


I agree that the commodification of our natural traits is a thing to be avoided, but if you consider it from a social scientist view, you'd see that one fertility ritual has very little difference from another. (Bm obviously find value in it, so it's serving its purpose.) Thus, bw should stop twerking for money, but that doesn't mean we should stop twerking in general.
 
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HarlemHottie said:
"Sexually adventurous", for a certain class of AA women, is evinced by being conversant in thot culture. I don't make the rules, I just follow them.:yeshrug: There's a niche of high earning AA men who are from the hood and therefore respond to hood mating calls, ie ratchet culture. If one wants one of those men, one must balance the two. :yeshrug:


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This is the dysfunction I talked about earlier. It's sad because it became normal by practice and glamorized by entertainment. The video we're talking about is a an example of this process.

We're paying for this dysfunction and we will pay for it later. Dysfunction only leads to more dysfunction.

I'm not asking you or any girl to be a nun, but you should be wary of certain things that our modern black culture see as normal. Those things are poison and will destroy you. Protect yourself.
 
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