Ugly set help. Any tips and tricks?

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dating apps are the worse way to find out if you're truly ugly
you could be average or your pics aren't helping
as a male those apps are rigged against you. The end goal for them is you paying.
you have to go out in the world to really know
 

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Yeah, my pics could be better. I'm bad at taking pics. I need to get a photographer to post pics of me looking good or something.
I been out the game for awhile myself, but I'm probably about to back out here in a few weeks and I'm a few months shy of 40.

I used to hate taking photos, but I made it a point to start documenting shyt, because people won't believe or get the full picture of something that happened. So, over the last few years I made sure to take pics of myself traveling, doing something interesting, and dressed up fresh.

I occasionally post a photo on social media and my likes have grown exponentially because I'm not doing bathroom selfies or sitting on my couch.

If you look boring, they gonna swipe left or right or whatever direction it is and be onto the next one.

Women want to come along for the ride, they don't want to be "the ride".

Also, as @humminbird , dating apps are heavily biased to women. You're gonna feel ugly, because the algorithm probably is jerking you around.
 

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I used to be handsome set, or so I thought. I see ugly set men with average to above average women on the streets and I wanna be one of them. I guess being 41 and never married is a red flag.
That's only a red flag to single moms. Just mean you waiting for the right one imo.


Some women like ugly dudes as well as bummy dudes. We talk this high value stuff online but I know for a fact where I grew up I saw career women who went to college dating, marrying, and having kids with ugly nikkas and bummy nikkas.

I'm talking Kodak black face mixed with flavor flav type of ugly my guy. These dudes had No job, no goals, no ambitions, no real interest outside of sports, social media, and video games.

The nikkas would look like this.

foolio-1000x563-1.jpg


Some of the chicks would look like Kandi Burruss and attend church every sunday while others would look like Sukihana.
 

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Stop being generic and taking generic pics. Show the women your fun side.
 

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So, I recently discovered I was ugly set after some dating app exploration. I'm not getting very many likes, and the likes I'm getting are from less than attractive women with kids. I've been out of the dating game for like 6 years, and recently just got back into it. How does ugly set compete in the dating game? Are there any tips or tricks? I mean, I'm of average weight, 6'2", but must have an ugly set face or something. shyt's hard out here.

:mjlol: Breh, no...

You're fine. That's how dating apps work :mjlol:

Normal women are looking for models.
 

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The majority of chicks dig good conversation. If you’re goof with your words and how to get them to show their vulnerable side, you can eat on those dating websites.

Pick something from their profile and pose a follow up question to show you actually read it and it will surprise you the excitement that some of them get when they answer.
 

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That's only a red flag to single moms. Just mean you waiting for the right one imo.


Some women like ugly dudes as well as bummy dudes. We talk this high value stuff online but I know for a fact where I grew up I saw career women who went to college dating, marrying, and having kids with ugly nikkas and bummy nikkas.

I'm talking Kodak black face mixed with flavor flav type of ugly my guy. These dudes had No job, no goals, no ambitions, no real interest outside of sports, social media, and video games.

The nikkas would look like this.

foolio-1000x563-1.jpg


Some of the chicks would look like Kandi Burruss and attend church every sunday while others would look like Sukihana.

Stop giving us false hope breh.:mjgrin:
 

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Lmao......they failed you going up by not being real, if true its not a recent development. You should have been building your body. Be self confident, quick witted, roast game impeccable to utterly destroy haters.......or just like who likes you.......within reason that is
 

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It depends.. your pictures are most likely trash let’s keep it a buck.

The one time I hopped on a dating app the only shorties that were my steelo were women with kids!
 

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So, I recently discovered I was ugly set after some dating app exploration. I'm not getting very many likes, and the likes I'm getting are from less than attractive women with kids. I've been out of the dating game for like 6 years, and recently just got back into it. How does ugly set compete in the dating game? Are there any tips or tricks? I mean, I'm of average weight, 6'2", but must have an ugly set face or something. shyt's hard out here.
Likes on a dating app doesn't mean your ugly gang. I do better interacting with women in real life and I only get matched with fat women on dating apps (sorry fat women, just not my thing. but there's someone out there for you)
 

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Your experience with dating apps doesn't mean you are ugly, you just don't stand out. Women on those things get hit with so many responses.
I recommend trying to find in person activities in your area. There are speed dating things where I live all the time....be some fine women there too.
 

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Do you speak textbook English with an American accent?

Where's your passport, I have an idea..
 
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