Ultimate "You ain't even my real dad"

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Either he's not being completely truthful in his recount, or the wife and daughter have no respect for him.


His only real option is to stop paying for the wedding...whatever happens after that happens.
 

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I'm skeptical. You don't just get to that place (all these years later) and suddenly become that inconsiderate and disrespectful, neither the mom or the daughter. The momma had to have started out that way. Did the other daughter turn out any better?
 

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Now, she wants him to walk her down the aisle and give her away. I suggested that we both walk her down, one on each arm and was shot down by she and her mother. Then we were planning the reception and she wants him to do the father/daughter dance. So I asked her, when do I get to dance with you? They both laughed and my wife said �Honey there is no such thing as a stepfather dance.

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The doctor was the moms first choice and throughout it all, she still respects him more than the man who raised her kids and took care of her and her family. That really tells you all you need to know. This man is being disrespected to this extent because he allows it, and no doubt has been passive and meek long before the girl was eligible to walk down the aisle. The mom has more than likely taken and used this guy for everything he was worth, and given that he was - and still clearly is - a simpleton, he tolerated that and her excess baggage because a woman was actually giving him attention.


She would have been with the other guy if he hadn't hit reset and started anew with another family , and no one is probably happier that the good doctor is back in the picture than the mother. Mother and daughter are dead ass wrong, but if he's too much of a p*ssy to check them or wipe his hands clean of that entire family tree, I can't feel too bad for him.

:damn:

Someone email this to the dude who submitted the question, asap!
 

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I'm skeptical. You don't just get to that place (all these years later) and suddenly become that inconsiderate and disrespectful, neither the mom or the daughter. The momma had to have started out that way. Did the other daughter turn out any better?
It happens way more than you think, I know kids who had the last name of the step dad and once the dad finally decides to show up, they take his last name, i'm talking like 6 months of knowing the guy, it happens a lot, there will never be a connection like the possible/future connection with a biological dad. My fiance had this battle, the biological dad has not been around nor called in years, yet now that she is going to get married he wanted to show up in the picture and contact her all the time, and she was actually wrestling with the idea of letting him walk her down the aisle (now she was smart and decided to stick with the step dad in terms of walking her down the aisle, heck he's actually putting money on the table for the wedding and been around since she was little supporting her). I can't nor ever will I be a step dad, if you want to help the kid, be a mentor.
 
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I never understand the mentality of a man that wifes a woman with young kids, especially if he does not have any. There are way too many women out here to feel this particular single mom is your one and only true love, especially considering you were more than likely her second love, after the first baby daddy. I personally don't know any men like that but it just comes off as desperate. If you want to help the kid out that much, be a mentor. If the biological father ever decides to make an attempt to be in the kids life, no matter how much the child says they hate them (there is a very thin line between love and hate), the step dad will lose in the end in some way, period.
 
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My nikka :laff:!!!

http://www.chron.com/cars/article/Stolen-Chevrolet-Bel-Air-is-recovered-30-years-5256956.php

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Skip Wilson stands in front of his 1957 Chevrolet Bel Air, stolen in 1984 and returned to him Monday by the Highway Patrol


when Skip Wilson's 1957 Chevrolet Bel Air vanished in 1984, it was a junker with no engine or transmission. When the car was finally recovered and returned this week, it was a restored classic, souped up and cherried out.

"It's got a new motor, upholstery, brakes, rims and tires, and the gauges - those are new, too - only say nine miles," the 65-year-old resident of Clearlake Oaks (Lake County) said.


Given the three decades that had passed since the car went missing, Wilson didn't have the police report handy, but after some digging, he was able to produce the necessary documents that proved the car was his.

A few weeks and a $900 transportation fee later, Wilson was reunited with a car he hardly recognized - a vehicle fit for a car show or a parade.

He said the state Department of Motor Vehicles told him that the car had been through four owners but that the serial number had never caught attention because the first character had been left off.

Wilson feels bad for the previous owner, who likely poured a significant amount of money into the restoration - and for the would-be buyer in Australia - but said he's tickled to have his car back.


sounds an awful lot like a man stepping in with the old clunker (single mom and her b*stards), raising em providing, doing the maintenance, putting time and effort and taking care of them , only for the owner (the biological dad) stepping in years later and saying thanks ill take it from here
 

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I never understand the mentality of a man that wifes a woman with young kids, especially if he does not have any. There are way too many women out here to feel this particular single mom is your one and only true love, especially considering you were more than likely her second love, after the first baby daddy. I personally don't know any men like that but it just comes off as desperate. If you want to help the kid out that much, be a mentor. If the biological father ever decides to make an attempt to be in the kids life, no matter how much the child says the hate them (there is a very thin line between love and hate), the step dad will lose in the end in some way, period.

simps gonna simp, its the same with dating single moms, a single mom will date a great guy nothing wrongwith him, but the minute the cheater, a$$hole baby dad said he changes and wants to give it a go she will

just like the ending of liar liar


Even though the 24 hours of truth are up, Max knows he means it, and Audrey decides not to move to Boston with Jerry.

One year later, Fletcher and Audrey are celebrating Max's birthday. The lights go off when Max blows out his birthday candles. When they go back on, Fletcher and Audrey are kissing. Fletcher asks Max if he wished for his mother and his dad to get back together and Max replies "No, I wished for roller blades!" The family seemingly returns to normal as Fletcher chases Audrey and Max around the house with "the Claw."
 

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The doctor was the moms first choice and throughout it all, she still respects him more than the man who raised her kids and took care of her and her family. That really tells you all you need to know. This man is being disrespected to this extent because he allows it, and no doubt has been passive and meek long before the girl was eligible to walk down the aisle. The mom has more than likely taken and used this guy for everything he was worth, and given that he was - and still clearly is - a simpleton, he tolerated that and her excess baggage because a woman was actually giving him attention.


She would have been with the other guy if he hadn't hit reset and started anew with another family , and no one is probably happier that the good doctor is back in the picture than the mother. Mother and daughter are dead ass wrong, but if he's too much of a p*ssy to check them or wipe his hands clean of that entire family tree, I can't feel too bad for him.
http://www.chron.com/cars/article/Stolen-Chevrolet-Bel-Air-is-recovered-30-years-5256956.php

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Skip Wilson stands in front of his 1957 Chevrolet Bel Air, stolen in 1984 and returned to him Monday by the Highway Patrol





sounds an awful lot like a man stepping in with the old clunker (single mom and her b*stards), raising em providing, doing the maintenance, putting time and effort and taking care of them , only for the owner (the biological dad) stepping in years later and saying thanks ill take it from here

:mjlol:
 
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