Unc got all the single moms pissed simps unite :mjlol:

[Rawtid]

 

[Rozay Oro]

The people who need to hear this won't listen. Just find a woman who will. Don't settle for behavior you don't like because the person has a p*ssy.

Real shyt. Don’t settle for subpar respect, don’t ignore the red flags in the beginning because the ass phat y’all

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

People really care about this?

Y’all really would feel disrespected if your wife put a plate of food in front of your kid a few seconds before she put a plate in front of you? What about the drinks? If she gives your toddler a sippy cup before she gives you something to drink are you gonna divorce her?

I don't think any man really finds it disrespectful, it's the fact she brought it up. Something like this shouldn't even be on a woman's mind.

Besides, I fix my plate myself.

 

[Luke Cage]

In my home growing we all had to say grace together before we started eating. So this was never an issue. Everybody ate at the same time.
After seeing this, i appreciate religion a bit more.

 

[mag357]

People really care about this?

Y’all really would feel disrespected if your wife put a plate of food in front of your kid a few seconds before she put a plate in front of you? What about the drinks? If she gives your toddler a sippy cup before she gives you something to drink are you gonna divorce her?

Niqqa like an old bitter diggy simmons

Sht not a big deal in my mind at all. It probably come from some old value sht where brehs not just man of the house but the king blasé blasé blaah… how tf imma get upset that the mother of my children cooked and feedin MY children? So long as I’m getting a plate with the fixens I’m not mad MY family eatin.

How this mf even find his way to TikTok anyway? On there mad af without even mentioning that DUMPA like how his family unit workin out? If he got it like that why’s it even his concern? Why ain’t he put his happy wife and children in the TikTok explaining the hierarchy? Sounds personal to. Niqqa too old to be hurt over random single women’s actions and children being fed lmao.


But aye, we still gon drain these bawls

It's strange because sometimes society acts like certain gestures are important... Or the see the value in it...
But then that act like certain gestures care foolish and there's no value...

I think I get the difference... It's a gender thing...
For example...
If a man didn't open the car door for a woman, if he walked first through a door without holding it first ... Let her shovel snow.... Pump gas...
People, men and women would look at that man weird.

If he responded by saying... Why should I do any of that for her, she's has 2 arms, 2 legs and a working brain ... People would think he hates Women.

Because we all understand gestures have meaning.... It's like humbling yourself to show respect...
But we only seen to get it when it comes to women.

When it comes to men, it's like.... Why does it matter. That's some patriarchy shyt.
"You mad if she feeds the kids first"

 

[Big Boss]

 

[Jesus H. Christ]

 

[Umoja]

We live in strange strange times…


For me personally its not about serving the kids first or having bragging rights as to me being able to eat first.


I mean SOMETIMES when it comes to CHILDREN, you know the little humans we are supposed to provide for, rear and PROTECT I don’t personally see what the issue is in feeding CHILDREN first.


The main issue is making it some type of rebellious act against the boyfriend/husband. Like your actually going to defeat the “evils of Patriarchy” through such a ridiculous display. What was the main thesis of posting that video? What point was she actually making? Any man with an ounce of a brain isn’t going to take that video as nothing more than proof that that woman is going to add very little peace to his life. If she’s got to make a big public showing of some little shyt in which she’s NOT going to put her man first, then think of the really important shyt she’s going to throw him under the bus over.


Its just dumb.

100%.

When I grew up, the children would be served first. Thinking about things, my dad was usually the one to share food out.

The order isn't something I put much importance on. Personally, I don't feel settled until the children and elderly are taken care of.

However her attitude stinks. Doing it to make a point is the signs of a confrontational and antagonistic individual. No one should want to be with someone who feels the need to demonstrate that you come second in their life.

 

[tuckgod]

EVERYONE should be repping this post.

/thread

Why?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Saying foolishness just to show ass

shyt looks terrible.


These fake asses make these women look wide as hell.

 

[KeysT]

I don't know why women get off on shading the man they love

Power Trip

 

[MajesticLion]

Illusions of control.

So you have this "power" to feed whoever in whatever order you please, and you're flapping your mandible over it...how's that play out long term? What message does it teach the child(ren)? They're going to respect that man after you pull this stunt? He's going to contentedly go out and face whatever the world brings on all your behalf, with that poison in his household waiting for him when he comes back?


This amounts to children with loaded firearms. All thoughts of "power" and no discernment on how to use it whatsoever.

 

[Wild self]

The breakdown of the black family unit continues.

 

[Wild self]

Illusions of control.

So you have this "power" to feed whoever in whatever order you please, and you're flapping your mandible over it...how's that play out long term? What message does it teach the child(ren)? They're going to respect that man after you pull this stunt? He's going to contentedly go out and face whatever the world brings on all your behalf, with that poison in his household waiting for him when he comes back?


This amounts to children with loaded firearms. All thoughts of "power" and no discernment on how to use it whatsoever.

And you wonder why kids act badly and have no respect for the adults in the household SMH.

 

[Wild self]

Dominican women don’t treat their men like that. Maybe this just a foundational American thing.

So you saying Hispanic women are better than black women? They just as ratchet as any hoodrat.