Under 21 Coli brehs please step in...

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Man, I really hope my students don't think this while I'm trying to talk to them. :mjcry:


Most definitely, I appreciate all of your answers :smile:


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I feel like this is most people in your generation. I remember growing up people WANTED marriage and kids, those things were goals.
My how the tables have turned.
But people are always evolving, get back to me in a few years. You never know :lolbron:


You know, I had to go urban what YRN means. fukk, I'm old. :flabbynsick:



It's not realistic at all. Keep trying, keep your focus, it WILL happen. You will make it happen.



What's your major? What do you want to do?




This is honestly where I was at your age. I was never worried or focused on men, shopping, etc. I just always focused on making it by because that in itself was hard enough. I wish you luck hun :hug:




Have you thought about going to a class for public speaking? Or making you feel totally comfortable speaking?
Public speaking class felt like home. 1 on 1 convos are weird. Yet when I took public speaking class, I went from
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To

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Its like a slight charisma boost :smugfavre:
 

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I've just been reading a lot of posts and watching videos virally shared on social media depicting young men.

Being totally honest, I don't think I've really ever carried a real conversation with a man even 5 years younger than me.

I'm just wondering, what is on your minds? What are your goals? Being famous? Making a lot of money? Being a family man? Owning your own business? Owning nice cars, nice clothes, etc?

I teach at an all boys Catholic school and I usually don't understand half of what they're talking about.

I gave up on trying to understand younger women, the snap-whatever Insta anything for likes generation is beyond me. I have a younger sister that can draw her eyebrows on 5 different ways but still doesn't know how to make a pelau.
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I think understanding young men will help me connect with students better, be able to get on their level and try to motivate them more.
A lot of the under 21 juggalos are different from us og juggalos
 

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Wish I could go back to 19/20:wtb:

Crazy thing is it wasn't even that long ago for me:mjcry:
 

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Care to elaborate mijo?

Gotchu.

It's kind of hard to explain if you haven't seen it. I feel I get a lot of attention off of my looks and the way I dress. I'm far from a GQ model but I do alright. That being said, when I'm in a place where there are a number of young people, naturally conversations get started. I'm introverted by nature, but if someone comes up and engages with me, I can fake the small talk enough to where they believe that I have some semblance of social skills.

I say all that to say, somewhere in the conversation, it's very noticeable when their faces go from :krs: to :scusthov:, like the realization that I'm lame asf by today's standards finally hits them. It doesn't help that I do not smoke or care for parties and clubs. I use to dumb myself down for people, but I got over that very quickly. Also, I reeeaallyy don't give a fukk what anyone assumes of me, so that deads any chance at a friendship with a lot of these people.
:yeshrug:

Again, this doesn't happen ALL the time with people my age, but it's a common occurrence.

Right now, I'm trying to improve myself and get out of this arrogant mentality.
 

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I'm 22. My main goal right now is to establish myself in this world. I've got a career where I can easily make six figures if I put my mind to that shyt. By the time I'm 30 I want to be able to say I've done XY and Z know what I mean? Learning something new everyday is huge for me, I can't let one day pass me by without learning SOMETHING new or else it's a waste of a day. But that's just me so, yeah :manny:
 

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I'm 20

My goal is to get accepted into my program and graduate college as soon as possible


I want to own a restaurant, a property or two, and be worth a milli before 30. Seems unrealistic right now but it's my goal:yeshrug:

I also want to find an attractive girl that loves me:wow: sadly that seems the toughest one of my goals:mjcry:

I wish I had drive like you back when I was 20 man, props.
I was only concerned with getting fukked up and pulling hoes, like most 20 year olds :yeshrug:
 

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Gotchu.

It's kind of hard to explain if you haven't seen it. I feel I get a lot of attention off of my looks and the way I dress. I'm far from a GQ model but I do alright. That being said, when I'm in a place where there are a number of young people, naturally conversations get started. I'm introverted by nature, but if someone comes up and engages with me, I can fake the small talk enough to where they believe that I have some semblance of social skills.

I say all that to say, somewhere in the conversation, it's very noticeable when their faces go from :krs: to :scusthov:, like the realization that I'm lame asf by today's standards finally hits them. It doesn't help that I do not smoke or care for parties and clubs. I use to dumb myself down for people, but I got over that very quickly. Also, I reeeaallyy don't give a fukk what anyone assumes of me, so that deads any chance at a friendship with a lot of these people.
:yeshrug:

Again, this doesn't happen ALL the time with people my age, but it's a common occurrence.

Right now, I'm trying to improve myself and get out of this arrogant mentality.

1. Great use of grammar! A plus!
2. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders and are very self aware.
3. You're right, you sound much older. Kudos to you. I hope everything works out breh. :hug:
 

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I'm just chilling right now, going to school rn, I had a job but I quit to focus on class.

I got some plans for the future but I don't like to speak on em until I feel I got it figured out enough :yeshrug:

At the end of the day though. I just wanna a good life I guess. I wanna put out positive energy and do good for myself and help other people out.

We taking it one day at a time though. La Vita Bella yall :to:
 

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I've just been reading a lot of posts and watching videos virally shared on social media depicting young men.

Being totally honest, I don't think I've really ever carried a real conversation with a man even 5 years younger than me.

I'm just wondering, what is on your minds? What are your goals? Being famous? Making a lot of money? Being a family man? Owning your own business? Owning nice cars, nice clothes, etc?

I teach at an all boys Catholic school and I usually don't understand half of what they're talking about.

I gave up on trying to understand younger women, the snap-whatever Insta anything for likes generation is beyond me. I have a younger sister that can draw her eyebrows on 5 different ways but still doesn't know how to make a pelau.
33myel2.jpg


I think understanding young men will help me connect with students better, be able to get on their level and try to motivate them more.
:dead:

I left secondary school almost 7 years ago but I remember that all the teachers that I was cool with were teachers that understood how to deal with us properly, they may not have understood what we were talking about but they treated us with the respect that a teenage boy, (who thinks he's a man) needed.
 

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Gotchu.

It's kind of hard to explain if you haven't seen it. I feel I get a lot of attention off of my looks and the way I dress. I'm far from a GQ model but I do alright. That being said, when I'm in a place where there are a number of young people, naturally conversations get started. I'm introverted by nature, but if someone comes up and engages with me, I can fake the small talk enough to where they believe that I have some semblance of social skills.

I say all that to say, somewhere in the conversation, it's very noticeable when their faces go from :krs: to :scusthov:, like the realization that I'm lame asf by today's standards finally hits them. It doesn't help that I do not smoke or care for parties and clubs. I use to dumb myself down for people, but I got over that very quickly. Also, I reeeaallyy don't give a fukk what anyone assumes of me, so that deads any chance at a friendship with a lot of these people.
:yeshrug:

Again, this doesn't happen ALL the time with people my age, but it's a common occurrence.

Right now, I'm trying to improve myself and get out of this arrogant mentality.
i could resonate with most of this:patrice:
 
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