UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I'd just break it off with her. I've been involved with one recently that pulled the waiting game. Practically begged me to date her seriously when I had already let it be known I didn't want that. When she finally came to terms with it, she was out of my life but it saved both of us the headache. I only wanted sex with occasional conversation and she wanted someone to love and take home. Be upfront with your intentions. If she ain't going for it, cut her loose and swallow the bullet. You'll save her and yourself the trouble and stress.

How long did this go on ?

 

[QuintessentialBM]

@ this entire thread.......

 

[Killer Instinct]

How long did this go on ?

Started early August, ended about two weeks ago. I have a class with her. We hit it off when I sat next to her in lecture. Text damn near everyday and she came over to the room a few times, but was adamant about "getting to know me". She said she wanted to be serious over & over - a lot more serious than I.


Thought I could sway her out of it, but she was dead set on a relationship first. So, I pulled the plug when I realized we weren't on the same wavelength. That text full of vitriol she sent me was but playing that kind of game just to sleep with someone just isn't worth it. Not when there are others who are willing to do so without the strings and emotions attached. She was pissed, but it saved a lot of feelings from being hurt in the long run.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You gotta make sure you find insecure and impressionable women for jumpoff. The obedient types that arent capable of independent thought. They typically wont go anywhere. Its the strong independent types and career sluts that are always on fire. I avoid those.

You don't think an insecure and impressionable chick would cheat? If she's insecure and impressionable then another guy could get to her easily.

 

[Crakface]

You don't think an insecure and impressionable chick would cheat? If she's insecure and impressionable then another guy could get to her easily.

Some women are looking for a mentor. They wont have the desire to cheat until they've absorbed all your angles and wisdom. Long as you keep um guessing and fed with new information they cant get anywhere else you'll have enough time to find their replacement model.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Or realized that rushing isn't for them.

I have a couple of friends who are good with casual sex...one who WANTS to have fun, but can't, cause she gets emotionally invested...it's so sad. If it's not for you, it's not for you. Don't worry about what other people are doing.

If she's really feeling him and wants to take her time, then nothing wrong with waiting. What's stupid is if she's saying that, but then rushes to sleep with another dude (and sometimes chicks do dumb shyt like that - hold off on the guy they like cause they don't want him to think she's a ho, but get her fix with a dude she's just having fun with...now that's grimey)

Props wow honest female

 

[Ashley Banks]

Some women are looking for a mentor. They wont have the desire to cheat until they've absorbed all your angles and wisdom. Long as you keep um guessing and fed with new information they cant get anywhere else you'll have enough time to find their replacement model.

ok

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Started early August, ended about two weeks ago. I have a class with her. We hit it off when I sat next to her in lecture. Text damn near everyday and she came over to the room a few times, but was adamant about "getting to know me". She said she wanted to be serious over & over - a lot more serious than I.


Thought I could sway her out of it, but she was dead set on a relationship first. So, I pulled the plug when I realized we weren't on the same wavelength. That text full of vitriol she sent me was but playing that kind of game just to sleep with someone just isn't worth it. Not when there are others who are willing to do so without the strings and emotions attached. She was pissed, but it saved a lot of feelings from being hurt in the long run.

You did good

I do not play those types of games with people because 1) It's a waste of their time and 2) Hurt people hurt people

There's too many people out there who just want something casual so there's no point in fukkin' over a chick just for some gine

 

[Ricky Church]

OP gets no buns!

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Honestly, men don't really know how they feel about you until after sex.

That is utter bullshyt. Men know what they want from Day One. Little boys aren't sure.​

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

@Stuntone...pics fam...

 

[tru_m.a.c]

That is utter bullshyt. Men know what they want from Day One. Little boys aren't sure.​

God I hate statements like this. Its completely ripped from the scorned diary of a female. Have you ever heard this said about a female? When was the last time in a conversation discussing relations, we've heard the term "little girl." Never. I will not nor will I ever allow the use of the word little boy when discussing a man over the age of 16 years old. If you can't provide the description of a "little girl" I don't think you should use the term "little boy."

So both men and women don't know what they want from Day 1?
So both men and women don't switch their stances/priorities over time?

 

[Stuntone]

@Stuntone...pics fam...

I'm thinking hard about dropping em

 

[Stuntone]

OP gets no buns!

I got a few go-tos I'm just trying to get ready for the winter.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

God I hate statements like this. Its completely ripped from the scorned diary of a female. Have you ever heard this said about a female? When was the last time in a conversation discussing relations, we've heard the term "little girl." Never. I will not nor will I ever allow the use of the word little boy when discussing a man over the age of 16 years old. If you can't provide the description of a "little girl" I don't think you should use the term "little boy."

Little boys don't know what type of relationship they want from a woman from the moment they see her or interact with her. Men know what time it is and proceed accordingly, not this 'Let me see what I can get without committing to anything'-game that seems to be popular nowadays. Men don't have to lie/bullshyt/'fake it' to kick it. We put the cards on the table from jump. If she's with it, then game on. If not, on to the next.

Stop condoning the actions of little boys tryin' to play a grown-man's game. They ain't built for it.
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