*UPDATE PG 2* Grade A simping right here!!! Gotdamn!!!

[Gold]

It's good to see a black man stepping up to the plate and taking care of a black child. Inasmuch as the kid is a black kid, I don't see a problem. More black boys need black fathers, whomever that man is.

I feel where you're coming from, but if you want to step up to a plate, marry the woman and make a full commitment to the family. Other than that, you're just a simp who has no real attachment to the situation other than your feelings.



Let me self-snitch for a little bit.


I was in this kid's shoes a several years ago. I was a red shirt at Vandy and I should have used this time to be young, enjoy myself and all the pleasures that being an athlete .

But no, I fell for this 1 chick cuz I thought she was the baddest ever

I find out (very shortly after) that she is pregnant by some other dude (like 3 months) and she is freaking out talking about leaving school and shyt

And i'm over here... feeling responsible, thinking of ways I can help and support her through this struggle


Thank God I grew into my senses and realized this was not my cross to bare


My point is that I was ready to drop everything in my life for this girl and this child that had nothing to do with me.


There was nothing manly about my thought process. She was not worth what I was ready to sacrifice for her.



EDIT: I was still her friend through it all, but that's where it ended. . I realized this was not the woman for me (thank God) and kept it moving. Best decision I've made in my entire life

 

[unit321]

What a beautiful story...


However, if she flips the script and walks out on him, she is going to take the kids away. Until he legally adopts the baby, it isn't his. She can use that as blackmail and tell him if he doesn't do this and that, she is going to take them all away.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

it's literally nothing
it's his life
idk if its an obsession with sex or what but I'm really not getting what is so offensive that people need to shyt on him

this bytch could pop out 30 kids and marry every single one of their daddies and you wouldn't even know about it unless she bragged about it on facebook
homeless people are out here spending money they got from panhandling on liquor, people are scamming old ladies, some are committing suicide and shyt, hell most of us are posting from devices made in some inhumane ass chinese sweatshop
and the decision that illicits the biggest response
is the one that makes the least impact on anyone but that little group of people

people aren't sad about him making a poor decision, this is just some point and laugh mob shyt

why you over here

dude posted that on social media
so we are all allowed to share our opinion

you arent even making a point with this post

 

[wet landscapes]

why you over here

dude posted that on social media
so we are all allowed to share our opinion

you arent even making a point with this post

there is no point in analyzing his choices either is my point
it's nothing
some dude dated a pregnant girl and got called the kids father
where is the outrage supposed to be

 

[Gold]

there is no point in analyzing his choices either is my point
it's nothing
some dude dated a pregnant girl and got called the kids father
where is the outrage supposed to be

It's not outrage though. It's a forum where people share their opinions about things. We are just saying he's most likely making a life-chaning mistake. I doubt any of us are going to lose sleep over this dude.

But if we cannot share our opinions about things... what's the point of a forum?

 

[wet landscapes]

It's not outrage though. It's a forum where people share their opinions about things. We are just saying he's most likely making a life-chaning mistake. I doubt any of us are going to lose sleep over this dude.

But if we cannot share our opinions about things... what's the point of a forum?

you can share them
I just think it's not coming from a good place
I don't even think he should have posted that tbh
he's in a really sensitive space in a really delicate situation that carries a lot of stigma and he doesn't need to have his spot blown up by outsiders
It just makes me really sad idk

 

[realn!ggatime]

fu¢¢ wat they sayin this is a gd guy fu¢¢ those dead beat n!ggas ill never make fun of a man who is responsible instead of these no gd fools who left this woman pregnant.

 

[Gold]

you can share them
I just think it's not coming from a good place
I don't even think he should have posted that tbh
he's in a really sensitive space in a really delicate situation that carries a lot of stigma and he doesn't need to have his spot blown up by outsiders
It just makes me really sad idk

Aye, like I said in my post above, I feel where you're coming from. That's why this special moment in his life should have remained private.

But if this was my friend, I would tell him he is making a mistake. My advice would be coming from a good place. If you are not ready to marry this woman and fully commit to this family, you don't need to be holding the newborn child and posting shyt for the world to see.

You are not that child's father, half father, step father, nothing. You are the simp who is infatuated with his mom, nothing more, nothing less.


I'm very very old school. To me, you're either single or married and point of dating is to marry someone. He's kinda floating out there in limbo, and his whole can get snatched from him easy because he has no claim to it. No claim to the woman, no claim to the children, no claim to shyt.

-She can have a bad day and kick him to the curb
-She can get back with the father and kick him to the curb
-The father can start something with him
-Her fam can reject him

I'm not trying to be negative, but this is real shyt that needs to be discussed when it comes to decisions like this. A picture of a dude holding a baby is nice and sweet but it doesn't end there.

You have to think with your brain and not your heart sometimes. It's part of growing up

 

[wet landscapes]

Aye, like I said in my post above, I feel where you're coming from. That's why this special moment in his life should have remained private.

But if this was my friend, I would tell him he is making a mistake. My advice would be coming from a good place. If you are not ready to marry this woman and fully commit to this family, you don't need to be holding the newborn child and posting shyt for the world to see.

You are not that child's father, half father, step father, nothing. You are the simp who is infatuated with his mom, nothing more, nothing less.

I don't like these harsh realities
he could turn have fallen in love with the kid when he held it
nobody else was there to hold it

 

[karim]

I just barely wanna say good for him.
It's wonderful when a good man does good things.

But I cant.

Why is she dating at 6 months pregnant?
Why is he dating someone 6 months pregnant?
Why is this her 3rd son with no daddy there?
Where is her mom or sisters or friends to be in the delivery room if the father is absent?
Why did either of them think this is a reasonable good idea?



Lord why?

fukk today's society man.

There needs to be a new word created for this. This is above and beyond just simping.
This is simp mixed with brain damage mixed with the internet and high fructose corn syrup
smh.

take note brehs, this is what woman think about you when you're simping.

 

[Gold]

I don't like these harsh realities
he could turn have fallen in love with the kid when he held it
nobody else was there to hold it

Life is harsh though fam


I've seen what it does to a man to be there when the father is absent, only to have the mom get back with the dad.

shyt happened to my friend, I don't think he ever recovered. 2 years raising a child only to be kicked to the curb when the father steps back into the picture.

 

[keond]

Dude's name is Hugh Morris Petty III. That comment might be fake.

Hugh Morris Petty III (Tmocomedy Instagram)
Comedian at Joke Boyz
Lives in Atlanta, Georgia

Let these nikkas cook tho....

 

[wet landscapes]

Life is harsh though fam


I've seen what it does to a man to be there when the father is absent, only to have the mom get back with the dad.

shyt happened to my friend, I don't think he ever recovered. 2 years raising a child only to be kicked to the curb when the father steps back into the picture.

what are people supposed to do when the father doesn't want to be there and the mother doesn't want to abort her baby?

 

[duckbutta]

I don't even understand the "met her when she was 6 months pregnant"

How do you see another woman that pregnant and be like "yeah...this is the one for me"...

Somebody need to strap this dude to a chair and make him watch the Ray Rice tape for 24 hours straight...pretty harsh but desperate times call for desperate measures...I don't see any other way to save him at this point

 

[wickedsm]

What a beautiful story...


However, if she flips the script and walks out on him, she is going to take the kids away. Until he legally adopts the baby, it isn't his. She can use that as blackmail and tell him if he doesn't do this and that, she is going to take them all away.

I mentioned that upthread. I would hate for him to get really attached to all of her kids and they get attached to him and then they break up.
That would be horrible for all of them.