*UPDATE PG 2* Grade A simping right here!!! Gotdamn!!!

[Gold]

what are people supposed to do when the father doesn't want to be there and the mother doesn't want to abort her baby?

Get married, make a true commitment. Don't let yourself be caught legally lacking when emotions run dry and feelings change. Human beings are volatile by nature. That's why we have things like contracts, seals, agreements, vows, etc.

Lets say i'm in his position, and I absolutely beyond a shadow of a doubt want to be with this woman and these children for the rest of my life... i'm marrying her. Otherwise i'm just a dude that helped her through a tough time.

And also, marriage forces her to make a decision too. A lot of women seek out the father's of their children within the first 3-5 years of the child's birth. He needs to let her know that is not an option.

It's not an easy solution I know... but both parties knew that when they decided to go for it anyway.

 

[wickedsm]

take note brehs, this is what woman think about you when you're simping.

Take note brehs this is what a grown woman who's a mother thinks about very young adults making very stupid decisions like playing house with 3 little children after "dating" for 3 months


You see what you want to see though.

 

[BamdaDon]

Head must have been

 

[wet landscapes]

Get married, make a true commitment. Don't let yourself be caught legally lacking when emotions run dry and feelings change. Human beings are volatile by nature. That's why we have things like contracts, seals, agreements, vows, etc.

Lets say i'm in his position, and I absolutely beyond a shadow of a doubt want to be with this woman and these children for the rest of my life... i'm marrying her. Otherwise i'm just a dude that helped her through a tough time.

And also, marriage forces her to make a decision too. A lot of women seek out the father's of their children within the first 3-5 years of the child's birth. He needs to let her know that is not an option.

It's not an easy solution I know... but both parties knew that when they decided to go for it anyway.

straight people have it hard.

 

[Freedman]

She sorta look like a Thot and bro bro way outta order. The only one reason to wife up a single mom and that's if she has your child too and this isn't his

 

[karim]

I......wow......does he have no friends? Family? How would anyone who cares about him let him do this? So she was 6 months pregnant when they met? Maybe he is one of those sick people who get sexually aroused by women who r pregnant with other men? idk im just trying to make sense of this.

breh, these simps don't listen. i have a friend who did the same damn thing. the thot he wifed up was not only ugly as sin, she turned out to be a crazy nightmare who made his life a living hell. on top of that, she kept hitting on his friends, who told him about it and he dismissed that shyt, even after some of them showed him text messages she send them. at some point, her homegirl introduced her to some guys from brazil. the bytch was all over these guys, going on trips with them, sitting on their laps and after they returned home, next thing you know, she goes and visits them in brazil for two weeks, while he is staying at home watching her daughter after spending ten fukking years with her, he finally broke up with her only to get trapped again six month later. the new girl was still living with her boyfriend when they got together. she dumped the old guy and had him stay over while the ex (who she had just recently bought a car with) was still living in the appartment. after some investigations it turns out she has a habbit of meeting guys, rushing into a relationship with them and then dumping them out of nowhere when she meets the next guy. and instead of seeing this type of behavior as a huge red flag, he went around telling everybody they were soul mates she made him change his whole appearance, turned him into a yoga practicing vegan fakkit and kept feeding him this bullshyt about how the two of them were dual souls. long story short, he proposed to her after less than six month and they got married a short time later. he cut off everybody that tried to tell him that he should slow things down and the two of them are currently trying to have a child. i've known this dude half of my life and he caught so many l's you'd think they are collectibles to him. i and many other people tried to get him to stop simping, but at some point you just and give up. shyt, i stopped reaching out and didn't even invite him to my birthday because he disgusts me so much. i can't look at him anymore

 

[Gold]

breh, these simps don't listen. i have a friend who did the same damn thing. the thot he wifed up was not only ugly as sin, she turned out to be a crazy nightmare who made his life a living hell. on top of that, she kept hitting on his friends, who told him about it and he dismissed that shyt, even after some of them showed him text messages she send them. at some point, her homegirl introduced her to some guys from brazil. the bytch was all over these guys, going on trips with them, sitting on their laps and after they returned home, next thing you know, she goes and visits them in brazil for two weeks, while he is staying at home watching her daughter after spending ten fukking years with her, he finally broke up with her only to get trapped again six month later. the new girl was still living with her boyfriend when they got together. she dumped the old guy and had him stay over while the ex (who she had just recently bought a car with) was still living in the appartment. after some investigations it turns out she has a habbit of meeting guys, rushing into a relationship with them and then dumping them out of nowhere when she meets the next guy. and instead of seeing this type of behavior as a huge red flag, he went around telling everybody they were soul mates she made him change his whole appearance, turned him into a yoga practicing vegan fakkit and kept feeding him this bullshyt about how the two of them were dual souls. long story short, he proposed to her after less than six month and they got married a short time later. he cut off everybody that tried to tell him that he should slow things down and the two of them are currently trying to have a child. i've known this dude half of my life and he caught so many l's you'd think they are collectibles to him. i and many other people tried to get him to stop simping, but at some point you just and give up. shyt, i stopped reaching out and didn't even invite him to my birthday because he disgusts me so much. i can't look at him anymore

Breh.. .we out here telling cautionary tales about the real life consequence of extreme simping.

People can choose to ignore it but sooner or later real life happens.

 

[Edub]

it's literally nothing
it's his life
idk if its an obsession with sex or what but I'm really not getting what is so offensive that people need to shyt on him

this bytch could pop out 30 kids and marry every single one of their daddies and you wouldn't even know about it unless she bragged about it on facebook
homeless people are out here spending money they got from panhandling on liquor, people are scamming old ladies, some are committing suicide and shyt, hell most of us are posting from devices made in some inhumane ass chinese sweatshop
and the decision that illicits the biggest response
is the one that makes the least impact on anyone but that little group of people

people aren't sad about him making a poor decision, this is just some point and laugh mob shyt

Can't be sad for him if he is happy with his choice...but this is a forum for opinionated folks and that's mine. You're right society is shytty to a large degree, but the fact that he thinks he is a hero because he is an adult male in a house with kids and no adult male CLEARLY shows he hasn't been guided...because with women (especially women with children) what he can bring in is going to start playing a role. This honeymoon stage is temporary

Sex is nothing to be obsessed about its just nice to have...but he's not even giving himself a GOOD chance at having rich sex. Rich sex is so much better, but he wouldn't know that because his young mind isn't even thinking that far. Take time and become Phillip Banks first...THEN TAKE CARE OF THE HOOD

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Let these nikkas cook tho....

 

[Canon]

heh this just reminded me when a chick who just had a baby two weeks prior messaged me on POF back in the day

i closed my account that fukking day

 

[Zero]

The sad thing is this woman prior to having those kids probably wouldn't have looked his way. She would have labeled him "corny" or "lame", but now because the man she want got his nut and bounced and left her pregnant now she wants a good man. If men would just STOP being simps, things could change in our society,but no men want a woman so bad that they'd settle for a fukking past her prime baby momma.

That will NEVER be me. NEVER! I will never play stepfather to another man's seed. Over my dead body.

How do you wear white shirts with your heart on your sleeve like that?

 

[Zero]

Let these nikkas cook tho....

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

breh, these simps don't listen. i have a friend who did the same damn thing. the thot he wifed up was not only ugly as sin, she turned out to be a crazy nightmare who made his life a living hell. on top of that, she kept hitting on his friends, who told him about it and he dismissed that shyt, even after some of them showed him text messages she send them. at some point, her homegirl introduced her to some guys from brazil. the bytch was all over these guys, going on trips with them, sitting on their laps and after they returned home, next thing you know, she goes and visits them in brazil for two weeks, while he is staying at home watching her daughter after spending ten fukking years with her, he finally broke up with her only to get trapped again six month later. the new girl was still living with her boyfriend when they got together. she dumped the old guy and had him stay over while the ex (who she had just recently bought a car with) was still living in the appartment. after some investigations it turns out she has a habbit of meeting guys, rushing into a relationship with them and then dumping them out of nowhere when she meets the next guy. and instead of seeing this type of behavior as a huge red flag, he went around telling everybody they were soul mates she made him change his whole appearance, turned him into a yoga practicing vegan fakkit and kept feeding him this bullshyt about how the two of them were dual souls. long story short, he proposed to her after less than six month and they got married a short time later. he cut off everybody that tried to tell him that he should slow things down and the two of them are currently trying to have a child. i've known this dude half of my life and he caught so many l's you'd think they are collectibles to him. i and many other people tried to get him to stop simping, but at some point you just and give up. shyt, i stopped reaching out and didn't even invite him to my birthday because he disgusts me so much. i can't look at him anymore

When I see people do this on my Facebook, I can't help but sit back & laugh just waiting for that breakup.

But back to the topic, people act real funny when they get into "relationships" or are "in love". At some point, you just have to let people fail on their own.

 

[Amphibious]

You guys are so ridiculous with this bullshyt.
This is my SECOND husband so no I wasn't dating him when I was with my first husband.

for the record I am also my husbands SECOND wife
he has children also. Thus the sm in my username.

No need for yall sensitive asses to worry that he missed out on anything.
my husband didn't have a problem getting all the p*ssy in the world before he met me
He wasn't on the coli crying with yall about how nobody wanted him till he was older and paid.

lmao@ your children by another man *angry typing angry typing*

Damn some of yall are a miserable ass bunch.

Shut up bytch. You're with a low valued chump, end of. You got no value either cause you couldn't keep the giver of your children

 

[Unknown Poster]

As someone that came from a stable two parent household there is absolutely nothing i can cosign about this.