UPDATE: SHE SWUNG ON ME er Been in a Relationship Where She Wanted you to Show Simp Characteristics?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Im dealing with this now with my ol girl.
She want me to do all the shyt simps do but whilst in a relationship. Now she gon tell me she dont think i can love her the way she wants and she acting all dry now.


(Oh well if i share that girl or not )

 

[TEH]

She’s giving you excuses

Sounds like you not hitting that right.

 

[Neuromancer]

Define simp characteristics?

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

Let another nikka deal wit her, fam.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

I'm in one right now


We just got back together but she dropped me for 2 weeks because I didn't go above and beyond for her.


We finally got back together this week and she clarified what she meant by that. I didn't buy her flowers after she kept trying to hint to me how much she likes them.


This was after a month of dating

 

[MikelArteta]

once you do she will say you hve changed

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

May as well consider letting her go or being prepared for her to possibly dip. One of my ex females wanted me to apologize more like these soft pussies that let their woman get away with every thing. Not happening.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

No.

 

[KneeGrow.]

She's testing you. They all do this eventually.

Also pics?

 

[karim]

I'm in one right now


We just got back together but she dropped me for 2 weeks because I didn't go above and beyond for her.


We finally got back together this week and she clarified what she meant by that. I didn't buy her flowers after she kept trying to hint to me how much she likes them.


This was after a month of dating

You shouldn't have taken her back

 

[fckyoupayme]

Sounds like she enjoys playing games

 

[MaxPain]

once you do she will say you hve changed

Men try to change women into something we can love, men try to change men into something they can’t stand.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

We need specifics on these "simp" characteristics

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Yea she's testing you bro. Don't fall for it

 

[BaldingSoHard]

She's testing you. They all do this eventually.

Also pics?

Yea. You have to establish yourself early in the relationship as a non-simp, otherwise this is the eventual fate.

What I do (or rather, did when I was dating) is at some point early in the relationship, ya'll gonna have the "Where do you want to eat?" conversation. And you're going to recommend something and she's going to say, "Eww, no I don't want that."

This is your chance. This is your moment.

I respond with, "Well that is what I want so that's where I'm going. You wanna roll with me or you want me to drop you off at home?"

Fam... She's. Gonna. Be. PISSED!

Make sure you don't escalate. Just be about it.

She will probably refuse to talk to you for a couple days, but when she comes back around, she will have gained respect for you.

And then ya'll can have a healthy relationship.