UPDATE: SHE SWUNG ON ME er Been in a Relationship Where She Wanted you to Show Simp Characteristics?

[Imhotep2]

Den her daughter bday is Friday and she asked me Monday if i could go half on the chuck e cheeses party.

shyt since she aint talking that mean she bet not bring up the money come friday

Knew this broad was a single mother from the title

She sees you as the simp who is going to save her from her bad decisions and wants you to act like one by spending your resources and time on her, and her alone

Dump the chickenhead and move onto the next one

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

What people say are simp qualities oftentimes just seem like normal healthy things people do for one another in relationships. These days everybody is focused on being as emotionally unavailable as possible to seem edgy or cool to avoid getting hurt. Meanwhile, why would somebody wanna be in a relationship with you if you don't add positivity to their lives and they do the same for you?

Key words are "do for each other"
My thing is if you don't want to simp the one you're with or go all out for the one you're with, why be in a relationship with that person?

Are you even happy with the person? Do they bring a smile to your face? Do you enjoy doing things with them? Up til 4am crying from laughter? Getting geeked over stuff you guys are excited about? Playing grab ass. Getting dressed up on occasion to go places. Road trips and music playlists. Cooking together...being affectionate. Getting each other small gifts. Just little shyt.

Or maybe this ain't somebody you really want but just somebody you want consistent sex from.

 

[jackson35]

Im dealing with this now with my ol girl.
She want me to do all the shyt simps do but whilst in a relationship. Now she gon tell me she dont think i can love her the way she wants and she acting all dry now.


(Oh well if i share that girl or not )

how does a man became a simp in a relationship with a woman?

 

[Chrishaune]

At some point, and we say this about women all of the time here, you have to look at yourself. If you've been in multiple relationships and none of them have worked out or are working out??? What's the common denominator??? Sometimes you have to take time out to work on your spiritual man. Are you ready and right mentally for a quality relationship with a woman?

 

[Brock Landers]

I'm in one right now


We just got back together but she dropped me for 2 weeks because I didn't go above and beyond for her.


We finally got back together this week and she clarified what she meant by that. I didn't buy her flowers after she kept trying to hint to me how much she likes them.


This was after a month of dating

Run far away breh, if she's a whole grown ass woman but cant articulate or be open about her own feelings/desires then she's not emotionally/psychologically ready to be in a relationship with ANYONE I wouldn't waste my time with someone like that

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Oh yeah fukk all that...once you acquiesce to that shyt you're done! If you put all your free time in her what you think the result is gonna be? You not gonna get a better job, a degree, a cert...you might not even get p*ssy. So obviously there are better ways to use your time than being up under her armpit...if she can't respect that then bounce.

Im saying.
Then she got the nerve to look at my call log talking about "who is kasey and why she calling so much" (my cousin ol girl). I let her know his phone broke so he use his girl phone. She told me Thursday to call him at night and i did and gave her the phone and she figired out it was him after she claim i watch gone catch these hands.

Now she feels dumb, she gone find another reason to bytch talking about "like damn you still talk to him more than me". Smh. I talk to him while im at work.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

tell her shut up & give her a noogie*

I would do that too but its proly gone be cringe worthy

 

[semicko82]

Im saying.
Then she got the nerve to look at my call log talking about "who is kasey and why she calling so much" (my cousin ol girl). I let her know his phone broke so he use his girl phone. She told me Thursday to call him at night and i did and gave her the phone and she figired out it was him after she claim i watch gone catch these hands.

Now she feels dumb, she gone find another reason to bytch talking about "like damn you still talk to him more than me". Smh. I talk to him while im at work.

Breh you already know what time it is, you can’t take that type of disrespect

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Never take back a woman as well. I’m sorry once a woman is gone she’s gone. I’m not some toy you can play with put on the shelf then come back in a few weeks

shyt since she thinks i pulled back..might as well stay pulled back forever instead of tryna make shyt right. I aint gettn nowhere anyway tryna make her unmad

 

[010101]

I would do that too but its proly gone be cringe worthy

you shook your girl finna beat you up¿*

 

[Strapped]

Be you dawg , her friends are in her ear about all the exciting shieet they are doing , spend away if you can afford it & tegret it later

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Oh I definitely asked.

She gave me a long winded excuse why she bounced and I straight up said "honestly I just figured you got another nikka ". She then tried to turn it back on me on some "really? Is that what you think of me " shyt.







But here we are. I may never know what happened in those 2 weeks but I recognize a temporary situation when I see one. It's just my turn again on this ride. I'll be rebuilding the roster on the side though, believe that



And since the last few brehettes I've dealt have been kind of fine (this chick included) I realize my new roster may be full of slump busters since the law averages should be kicking in right about now



It's gonna be a hot summer

Yep. I might as well keep my draft spots open now.
Dont help that whilst at work (outside of 24hr. Fitness) that a girl chose up and ssked if i had a girlfriend. Told her "...uhh....yeah "
WHY SHE COULDN'T BE MAD AT ME WEEKS AGO!!


Had me being all faithful and shyt

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Single mom the plot thickens

Well technically she aint single but yeah.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

You're dating a single mom? Do you have kids?

Naw

 

[semicko82]

Well technically she aint single but yeah.

What the hell type of soap opera you got going on