That's every girl breh
They want you to be an alpha man, but have some simp qualities
Knew this broad was a single mother from the title
She sees you as the simp who is going to save her from her bad decisions and wants you to act like one by spending your resources and time on her, and her alone
Dump the chickenhead and move onto the next one
Yea. You have to establish yourself early in the relationship as a non-simp, otherwise this is the eventual fate.
What I do (or rather, did when I was dating) is at some point early in the relationship, ya'll gonna have the "Where do you want to eat?" conversation. And you're going to recommend something and she's going to say, "Eww, no I don't want that."
This is your chance. This is your moment.
I respond with, "Well I do want that so that's where I'm going. You wanna roll with me or you want me to drop you off at home?"
Fam... She's. Gonna. Be. PISSED!
Make sure you don't escalate. Just beabout it.
She will probably refuse to talk to you for a couple days, but when she comes back around, she will have gained respect for you.
And then ya'll can have a healthy relationship.
What people say are simp qualities oftentimes just seem like normal healthy things people do for one another in relationships. These days everybody is focused on being as emotionally unavailable as possible to seem edgy or cool to avoid getting hurt. Meanwhile, why would somebody wanna be in a relationship with you if you don't add positivity to their lives and they do the same for you?
Key words are "do for each other"
My thing is if you don't want to simp the one you're with or go all out for the one you're with, why be in a relationship with that person?
Are you even happy with the person? Do they bring a smile to your face? Do you enjoy doing things with them? Up til 4am crying from laughter? Getting geeked over stuff you guys are excited about? Playing grab ass. Getting dressed up on occasion to go places. Road trips and music playlists. Cooking together...being affectionate. Getting each other small gifts. Just little shyt.
Or maybe this ain't somebody you really want but just somebody you want consistent sex from.
Run far away breh, if she's a whole grown ass woman but cant articulate or be open about her own feelings/desires then she's not emotionally/psychologically ready to be in a relationship with ANYONE
You got a lot of soul searching to doI told her she had a guilty conscience and she got mad talking about thats what she supposed to do as a woman.
I went through her phone (she did me first) and it dont help that her single aunt gassing her up "yeah girl you done....you burnt out....thats how me and my ex used to be...do he still got a drinkin problem."
for father's day I bought myself a 300 blackout pistol with a sba3 brace utg sights magpul magazines and 3 boxes of ammo...I gave her what I felt like she deserved and I gave myself what I wanted...I don't need her
...guess I should add my son is my main priority...my check is his check...thats his money
Be you dawg , her friends are in her ear about all the exciting shieet they are doing , spend away if you can afford it& tegret it later
