UPDATE: SHE SWUNG ON ME er Been in a Relationship Where She Wanted you to Show Simp Characteristics?
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FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
You still caught feelings for her
Well of course...we in a relationship
idonttouchgrass
Superstar
how does a vegan end up with a bbw? seems like a bad fit...There doesn't need to be a lot of money spent. And if she doesn't see that then she ain't the one. People get caught up in shyt like this b/c it's about using people instead of spending time together.
Yeah we dont do none of that. (No more)
She the one been complaining about us being on a budget when i wanna do some shyt for me like get stuff from the smoke shop (vape and cbd) and stuff. If we on a budget then aint no going out to eat or nttn cuz we can eat at home.
(I aint do nttn for her bday neither)
A guy friend of mine hit me up for a for an impromptu road trip to the mountains. He paid for food and I paid for gas. We left early morning on Saturday, went hiking(I almost died but the view was beautiful), had a picnic and came back listening to chill music on a nice night drive under the stars.
$50 for food and $40 for gas. I'm one of those people that has to get out and do stuff or I'll go crazy--er. But I'm also cheap as fukk. So you gotta get creative!
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
She was spos to be changing her diet next month.
I been messin with bbws tho.
Guess cuz im skinny
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
Exactly how I feel. A bytch can take it or leave it. This train is moving whether you're onboard or not. Not bending over backwards and exerting myself for these women anymore. They never appreciate that shyt and they're quick to forget the shyt you HAVE done for them on some "what have you done for me lately" type shyt. So why even try?
It doesn't get you anywhere in the long run with them anyway. My uncle Jimmy (RIP) used to always tell me when I was too young to care or understand that "nephew, the more you give em', the more they want". Now, as a full grown man with a large sample size of women under my belt, I can say that my uncle couldn't have been more right 
Man. fukk these hoes. Just focus on yourself. Because these bytches will leave you frustrated and heartbroken if you expect your relationship to turn out like they do in one of them CAC romantic comedies 
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
There doesn't need to be a lot of money spent. And if she doesn't see that then she ain't the one. People get caught up in shyt like this b/c it's about using people instead of spending time together.
A guy friend of mine hit me up for a for an impromptu road trip to the mountains. He paid for food and I paid for gas. We left early morning on Saturday, went hiking(I almost died but the view was beautiful), had a picnic and came back listening to chill music on a nice night drive under the stars.
$50 for food and $40 for gas. I'm one of those people that has to get out and do stuff or I'll go crazy--er. But I'm also cheap as fukk. So you gotta get creative!
1) she cant do nttn physical cuz of her health (That's gone derail the topic)
2) she grew up pretty much middle class and i was in the hood so im used to struggling. I aint against going out and doing something but since we been on a budget i aint doing jack. She already got us participating in this $300 chuck e cheeses party friday for her daughter.
Damn all that. When i was little we getting the plastic ice cream tub, some hot dogs and chili and some chips at home. fukk you gotta spend $300 on a 7 year old for one day for?
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FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Exactly how I feel. A bytch can take it or leave it. Not bending over backwards and exerting myself for these women anymore. They never appreciate that shyt and they're quick to forget the shyt you HAVE done for them on some "what have you done for me lately" type shyt. So why even try?
What people say are simp qualities oftentimes just seem like normal healthy things people do for one another in relationships. These days everybody is focused on being as emotionally unavailable as possible to seem edgy or cool to avoid getting hurt. Meanwhile, why would somebody wanna be in a relationship with you if you don't add positivity to their lives and they do the same for you?
Key words are "do for each other"
My thing is if you don't want to simp the one you're with or go all out for the one you're with, why be in a relationship with that person?
Are you even happy with the person? Do they bring a smile to your face? Do you enjoy doing things with them? Up til 4am crying from laughter? Getting geeked over stuff you guys are excited about? Playing grab ass. Getting dressed up on occasion to go places. Road trips and music playlists. Cooking together...being affectionate. Getting each other small gifts. Just little shyt.
Or maybe this ain't somebody you really want but just somebody you want consistent sex from.
right on cue.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Pretty much what i been doing.
Not chasing her when she pulled back.
Thats why i said ima just stick to myself now cuz me trying aint gettn no where
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When she pulls back you gotta pull back even more. Meet her distance with your own distance. Give her all the space she wants. I tried chasing when a chic pulled back and the broad made me pay for it dearly. Lesson learned so now I share the word with my brethren.
I did that so hopefully you don't have to go through that.
Outside of her badgering you to do more lovey dovey stuff, are you someone that display affection that extends outside of sex. Is her request genuinely unreasonable, is she needy or are you playing mr. tough guy for the coli.
I can understand that some women can be excessive in display for affection to fill their own insecurities or emptiness. But it is not unreasonable for a woman to request intimate moments with someone that she loves. If she behaved the same way that you do in her affections towards you, would you still be with her.
I am only asking this because I am a young woman that gives affection sparingly and I have had complaints by men that I am too cold.
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Thanks for these details.Bush that bytch. All of this sounds excessive. And I totally agree b/c I'm cheap too. One of my good male friends is a trust fund baby. Chicks be like "why you ain't trying to get with him." Dude is spoiled rotten. Stays at home ALL day on video games, doesn't work, crib looks like a scene from Fallout 4, don't value shyt, is obnoxious...and on and on. Money don't mean everything.
She sounds like too much risk and too little reward. You better than this. Is she black? She sounds like a hot mess.com
