UPDATE: SHE SWUNG ON ME er Been in a Relationship Where She Wanted you to Show Simp Characteristics?

[Umoja]

You elbowing her, slapping her phone, pulling the pillow, throwing her stuff out and then trying to call your sister to beat her up has you looking funny in the light. You intentionally escalated that situation because you were in your feelings about the whole situation.

Where they do that at?

 

[Blackrogue]

@FLYINHAWAIIAN real talk i had a conversation with my God/ step father. He said you must demand respect. See I'm the type to have empathy and consideration. But he said at the beginning you can fukk around and pretend but you are doing yourself a disservice by not demanding your place as the man and the respect that comes with it.
He told me if she thinks she can do whatever with no consideration for you and wants her way. You think you got a woman but you don't have a woman.
Nowadays I don't tolerate any nonsense. I don't care how fine you are. I'm considerate but don't try me. Some women are full of shyt and I literally do the and
Like try someone else with that bullshyt. Make a stand for yourself. Don't let anyone male or female hoe you.
The simple answer before I even read the entire thread is tell her to kick rocks. You don't even have to tell her. Just her. And be proud you standing your ground.

 

[Blackrogue]

You said it yourself you were passionate and you got in your feelings because she wasn't taking you seriously.

I think you used the "breh" comment as an excuse to let out your built up aggression.

You elbowing her, slapping her phone, pulling the pillow, throwing her stuff out and then trying to call your sister to beat her up has you looking funny in the light. You intentionally escalated that situation because you were in your feelings about the whole situation.

She shouldn't have hit you but you had it coming.

Wait did he do some hoe shyt already?
Let me read thread


My female cousin once told me years ago in Swahili. Dawa ya msichana nikumwacha. A woman's medicine is to leave her. So I don't need to get into extra shyt.

 

[Blackrogue]

I'm already as I read the thread. She ain't got nowhere to go and wants you to pay for daughters party. While giving you shyt. Wheres the father?

 

[Blackrogue]

When she pulls back you gotta pull back even more. Meet her distance with your own distance. Give her all the space she wants. I tried chasing when a chic pulled back and the broad made me pay for it dearly. Lesson learned so now I share the word with my brethren.

I did that so hopefully you don't have to go through that.

What bro gotta learn is to do things with conviction. Not empty actions hoping for a response but with conviction that I don't accept this.
The difference in how people are built is some would be playing games just to get the woman in check while others would be like eh next.
This woman is less than ideal. Big bytch, got a kid who the father is not participating in his life but she wants you to do shyt but she ain't pushing him. And then toxic.

The answer is simple move on and stop letting people get you into hoe situations. And stop reacting like you do.


In my mind.. Simp shyt isn't about buying her abcd. Simp shyt is the falling for the okie doke

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

@FLYINHAWAIIAN real talk i had a conversation with my God/ step father. He said you must demand respect. See I'm the type to have empathy and consideration. But he said at the beginning you can fukk around and pretend but you are doing yourself a disservice by not demanding your place as the man and the respect that comes with it.
He told me if she thinks she can do whatever with no consideration for you and wants her way. You think you got a woman but you don't have a woman.
Nowadays I don't tolerate any nonsense. I don't care how fine you are. I'm considerate but don't try me. Some women are full of shyt and I literally do the and
Like try someone else with that bullshyt. Make a stand for yourself. Don't let anyone male or female hoe you.
The simple answer before I even read the entire thread is tell her to kick rocks. You don't even have to tell her. Just her. And be proud you standing your ground.

I did stand my ground.
People up in here making it seem like i started it cuz of the debate

 

[13473]

did the argument start because u told her she'd lose weight going vegan?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I'm already as I read the thread. She ain't got nowhere to go and wants you to pay for daughters party. While giving you shyt. Wheres the father?

She dont know who or where the father is?

 

[semicko82]

She dont know who or where the father is?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

did the argument start because u told her she'd lose weight going vegan?

Naw.
I been told her that.
The argument started after the debate when she started talking crazy to me

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yeah.
Body count strong.
I tried to play step daddy too

 

[Blackrogue]

She dont know who or where the father is?

She don't know who?

She don't know..

 

[Blackrogue]

Yeah.
Body count strong.
I tried to play step daddy too

nikka stop asking question s and just dip wtf!!!!

 

[Zebruh]

Should've held steadfast to her leaving instead of the elbow and phone slap. Let her know its either give me respect or get out.

But it sounds like this was a long time coming.

 

[You Win Perfect]

Let another nikka deal wit her, fam.

basically. ya'll need to stop stressin over emotionally unstable females just for some p*ssy and keep it movin