*UPDATE* (She was molested) My wife doesn't shower...

Rozay Oro

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BWAAHAAA WHITE NICCAS BE CRACKING ME UP WITH THEIR KEEPING EXCEL SPREADSHEETS OF DOCUMENTATION OF CHIT LIKE THIS, like the guy that showed his wife how much sex they had been having...
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i still dont get how none of this was apparent in a 3 year relationship and/or how it started once married? first, not showering as a defense mechanism seems like something she'd be doing all her life, including while they were dating...but he said she smelled fine/looked clean during this time. so she felt no need to "defend" herself during her dating years?

She was probably doing the bare minimum and giving herself a wash up in the sink or some shyt at her house beforehand when they were dating and slipped back into old habits. But for all I know, the nikka was just so happy to be pawging he was "noseblind". Early in the OP he even said "she doesn't quite smell..." Yet as time went on he comes out and admits she fukking stinks. :hula:

I said a couple days ago the first red flag should've been when she didn't shower after sex because I'm sure a few times they had sleepovers and did a couple rounds over the course of a night and she was probably funky af then, but he ignored it. Dude was just in denial.

I mean, it's the internet so he could be full of shyt, but thinking about it, I could see this being true. Not surprised at her being molested either, I called that shyt on day 1. This is classic behavior.
 

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Not surprised at her being molested either, I called that shyt on day 1. This is classic behavior.
Why don't they like to shower? Is it the loneliness when you shower that leaves you with your thoughts? Or is it usually where most people get molested as a youth?
 

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so...her past sexual abuse is why she doesn't wash her ass huh.

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Why don't they like to shower? Is it the loneliness when you shower that leaves you with your thoughts? Or is it usually where most people get molested as a youth?


See my earlier reply:


She was probably raped or molested. A lot of people who were molested as children developed poor hygiene as a coping mechanism and/or because they hoped by being dirty or smelly, whoever was abusing them would be put off by the smell and leave them alone (which sometimes worked). That or bath times are when they were molested in the past. It carries over into adulthood in some cases where they pretty much develop a phobia of showering/bathing.


Basically it's a defense mechanism.
 

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Why do nikkas on here think the solution to everything is to get up and leave :gucci:








I'd prolly do same too :hamster:

That doesn't make it the right thing tho :ufdup:
So whats the right thing? Deal with a mentally ill women who hid it from u for years?

Id atleast give her credit if she didnt hide this from him till they was married but she did.
 

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white bytches all got fukked on by they brother or they pop/uncle when they was little thats why they so experienced and ready to fukk as we get older :sas2:
Cacs stay with that family love shyt

White girls be off the porch early with the neck game

Lol @ people neggin u
 

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So whats the right thing? Deal with a mentally ill women who hid it from u for years?

Id atleast give her credit if she didnt hide this from him till they was married but she did.

They’re one flesh before God.:manny:

He stuck with her.

Some people do try to take their marriage vows seriously, I guess.
 

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They’re one flesh before God.:manny:

He stuck with her.

Some people do try to take their marriage vows seriously, I guess.
Even u arent as sure about that with the “I guess” part....:russ:


Marriage is nothing to most people fam, in the real world....with that being said he should drop her for being dishonest about her past for so long.....and should gut check himself for putting up with it for so long and not doing the proper background checks...

Or maybe he likes being with a stinky mentally ill woman....Its his marriage not mine.:hhh:
 
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