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I keep telling you nikkaz,....
Black people don't date and if you do.
You gon get offbrand situations like this trying to be a simp.
Stop going on dates.
you not gon be fukk'n these females like that.
Plus, real talk....
The black women who will build a relationship with you.
is completely isolated and really not out in public like that.
The females who are relationship worthy don't subscribe to that dating shyt that this clown ass girl is ranting about.
Deflecting onto credit cards and other bullshyt.


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Am i the only one that keeps an expired/canceled card just to hold tabs? Bartender try to run that I have no choice but to hit the

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I keep telling you nikkaz,....
Black people don't date and if you do.
You gon get offbrand situations like this trying to be a simp.
Stop going on dates.
you not gon be fukk'n these females like that.
Plus, real talk....
The black women who will build a relationship with you.
is completely isolated and really not out in public like that.
The females who are relationship worthy don't subscribe to that dating shyt that this clown ass girl is ranting about.
Deflecting onto credit cards and other bullshyt.


Art Barr
ArtBarr... Tell me this homie.

As clearly as possible... (no shade homie, just can't understand you sometimes). These black women worth building relationships with.... I always find them. But it's like all of them have a stigma about sex. Could you enter into a relationship with a great black woman if she wanted to hold off on sex til marriage because she is a virgin?

What are the chances of you getting with a good girl like that who is "waiting for marriage" and hasnt had sex, and her actually letting you smash eventually? I've dated these relationship/good types before and like after 3 or 4 months. I can't keep waiting for cooch that will never come. Especially since they want to be as close as possible just without it.
 
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ArtBarr... Tell me this homie.

As clearly as possible... (no shade homie, just can't understand you sometimes). These black women worth building relationships with.... I always find them. But it's like all of them have a stigma about sex. Could you enter into a relationship with a great black woman if she wanted to hold off on sex til marriage because she is a virgin?

What are the chances of you getting with a good girl like that who is "waiting for marriage" and hasnt had sex, and her actually letting you smash eventually? I've dated these relationship/good types before and like after 3 or 4 months. I can't keep waiting for cooch that will never come. Especially since they want to be as close as possible just without it.

This is a very common situation most Men find themselves in. The biggest gem I can drop about how to handle it is this:

She is very attracted to you, but just shy of the mark of what we want. On a scale of 1-10 she is attracted to you about a 7 out of 10. For a Woman to have sex with you it's got to be 8 or above.

You have a couple of options here, but the best one hands down is to temporarily charge her to the game passively and stack your roster. When she feels she gets put on the bleachers, sometimes that 7 will bump up to an 8 based on the fact you have other options alone, sometimes only to a 7.5 - At which point let's you know to immediately dismiss her.

The fact is if a female is marriage material - Forget that, just even relationship material she will be so attracted to you she will not be able to keep her hands off you. If it's really not to that level by date #3 then you ideally need to keep it trucking under 90% of circumstances in my experience.

The problem is females are not decisive - Ever - So YOU gotta be to save your hard earned money and more importantly - ya time!!! :smugdraper:

Women have no problem stringing along "Middle of the road" nikkas for YEARS on end....They live and breathe on attention. Men, we don't operate that way, so you gotta make decisions like a Man and cut off bytches that are not in it to Win your affections.:obama:
 

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ArtBarr... Tell me this homie.

As clearly as possible... (no shade homie, just can't understand you sometimes). These black women worth building relationships with.... I always find them. But it's like all of them have a stigma about sex. Could you enter into a relationship with a great black woman if she wanted to hold off on sex til marriage because she is a virgin?

What are the chances of you getting with a good girl like that who is "waiting for marriage" and hasnt had sex, and her actually letting you smash eventually? I've dated these relationship/good types before and like after 3 or 4 months. I can't keep waiting for cooch that will never come. Especially since they want to be as close as possible just without it.


You never let a woman, deny you from intimacy and still keep her around breh.
You do know and you not anything with a female till you are fully intercourse intimate.
Females know this and give cooch out on the first day to any guy who knows what to do.
You should not be waiting around to have sex with a female.
The reason why this gold digga publically can do this and be rewarded and it gets logged into.
what lame nikkaz do from the female matriarch perspective of no return.
Is because females know they will fukk you broke, with no date.
If you stop subscribing to simp ass shyt.
Females don't even respect or believe in.
or use to get up with a mate.
Black females mate with guys who not taking them out on first dates.
It has been like this for a long ass time and I noticed this shyt was a real dynamic back in like 2002.

Black females do not date in what is termed dating in the white world.

If she not feeling you enough to let you drop by with no real convo.
Lose her number,....
Females don't wanna talk and get to know you or none of that bullshyt.
They just want a guy who is caw character blacked out when it comes to if they know you.
The more you do shyt that resembles chivalry.
that females don't subscribe to and have not for a long ass time.
You will lose....
I know it sounds crazy but with females.
The wrong way is the right way, damn near as principle.
You just have to learn how to finesse using all the wrong shyt, they like.
As, y'all forget females like worlds and they love stealing the world.
from the guy who learned to use all the wrong shyt to get by.
They like the undesirable traits of men cause females are sheltered and envy men.
So, they want to know how it all works and how to get it to all work in your favor, and their's.

A female does not want to be in the world of a guy who follows outdated simp methods from good guy game.
Good guy game females outlawed.
You, can not be a good guy to females and please stop trying to bebin committal long term relationships with them faking a nut for a relationship.
Which is what the women you are describing do and they are undesirable too.

Also, all females in general are eic vampires over the age of twenty two.
So, you gon have to start studying the matrix of undesirable females.
Plus what makes them tick to get on, to get by and satiate your libido .


Art Barr

Oh and for you talembout a negative perspective of nikkaz.
Who don't get what I am saying.

This is what you need to know.

If they don't see,...
They not gon see and it is foolish for you.
to help a person who wants to be blind, attempt to see.
 
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Just remember this, females who have sex on the 1st date are not necessarily sluts. But if they don't have sex with you by the 3rd in most cases they are simply not interested enough. It depends on the culture sometimes though and I'd add an additional 2-3 cheap dates for Women from traditional cultures. But if we are talking month 3 of no sex then yeah give her those nosebleed section seat tickets to your life :camby:
 

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This is a very common situation most Men find themselves in. The biggest gem I can drop about how to handle it is this:

She is very attracted to you, but just shy of the mark of what we want. On a scale of 1-10 she is attracted to you about a 7 out of 10. For a Woman to have sex with you it's got to be 8 or above.

You have a couple of options here, but the best one hands down is to temporarily charge her to the game passively and stack your roster. When she feels she gets put on the bleachers, sometimes that 7 will bump up to an 8 based on the fact you have other options alone, sometimes only to a 7.5 - At which point let's you know to immediately dismiss her.

The fact is if a female is marriage material - Forget that, just even relationship material she will be so attracted to you she will not be able to keep her hands off you. If it's really not to that level by date #3 then you ideally need to keep it trucking under 90% of circumstances in my experience.

The problem is females are not decisive - Ever - So YOU gotta be to save your hard earned money and more importantly - ya time!!! :smugdraper:

Women have no problem stringing along "Middle of the road" nikkas for YEARS on end....They live and breathe on attention. Men, we don't operate that way, so you gotta make decisions like a Man and cut off bytches that are not in it to Win your affections.:obama:
Preciate the feedback homie.... Usually how it happens for me isn't like this tho. They def have me in the 8 out of 10 category. They are all over me, they'll get naked around you. But she won't touch you, and after 3 or 4 months of sleeping over, being all over you, etc. she'll be down to give and receive head but then she lets it be known, that's all it will ever be. for good.

I usually fail when they want to argue about it, because I know my value, and they want to complain about how shallow you are or talk to you like you just want sex from them and I have to knock em back down to earth and let them know, I do want it... but she's obviously very ignorant to talk to me that way seeing as to how if I wanted sex, I have plenty of ways to get that, with someone who actually knows what they are doing. Versus argue my time away with someone who doesn't even know anything about sex. Obviously I'm not here for your vagina. From there their feelings get hurt because Im telling it how it is...

Which usually leads to them valuing their vagina too highly and giving ultimatums like fine then. "You won't be seeing me naked" or "I don't feel comfortable messing around with youa t all then"

To which I usually never entertain and go ghost. Before they are beggin to come back but nothing will change. THen I usually have to put my foot down and say, no more staying over.

THen she gets emotionally hurt again and I'm the a$$hole guy she tells her friends about lol.
 
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Preciate the feedback homie.... Usually how it happens for me isn't like this tho. They def have me in the 8 out of 10 category. They are all over me, they'll get naked around you. But she won't touch you, and after 3 or 4 months of sleeping over, being all over you, etc. she'll be down to give and receive head but then she lets it be known, that's all it will ever be. for good.

I usually fail when they want to argue about it, because I know my value, and they want to complain about how shallow you are or talk to you like you just want sex from them and I have to knock em back down to earth and let them know, I do want it... but she's obviously very ignorant to talk to me that way seeing as to how if I wanted sex, I have plenty of ways to get that, with someone who actually knows what they are doing. Versus argue my time away with someone who doesn't even know anything about sex. Obviously I'm not here for your vagina. From there their feelings get hurt because Im telling it how it is...

Which usually leads to them valuing their vagina too highly and giving ultimatums like fine then. "You won't be seeing me naked" or "I don't feel comfortable messing around with youa t all then"

To which I usually never entertain and go ghost. Before they are beggin to come back but nothing will change. THen I usually have to put my foot down and say, no more staying over.

THen she gets emotionally hurt again and I'm the a$$hole guy she tells her friends about lol.

Nah dawgie. I am firm on the 8 out of 10 it means sex period, nothing less.

The whole ultimatum shyt, that is for young females under 18. Over 21 they don't even get a warning. Just bounce bytch. Give them days, weeks months however long it takes their dumb ass to figure it out. But if they take too long there will be no turning back for me personally.

The problem is you weren't a big enough a$$hole. You need to start treating her like a raggamuffin because honestly a lot of these innocent girls even have been programmed by Chris Brown media that this is the way a loving relationship is between a Man and a Woman. OR you can just eject these hoes from your squad, start fresh and get Women who are actually passionate about you and your life path from the jump. I prefer the second option.
 

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You never let a woman, deny you from intimacy and still keep her around breh.
You do know and not anything with a female till you are fully intercourse intimate.
Females know this and give cooch out on the first day to any guy who knows what to do.
You should not be waiting around to have sex with a female.
The reason why this gold digga publically can do this and be rewarded and it gets logged into.
what lame nikkaz do from the female matriarch perspective of no return.
Is because females know they will fukk you broke, with no date.
If you stop subscribing to simp ass shyt.
Females don't even respect or believe in.
or use to get up with a mate.
Black females mate with guys who not taking them out on first dates.
It has been like this for a long ass time and I noticed this shyt was a real dynamic back in like 2002.

Black females do not date in what is termed dating in the white world.

If she not feeling you enough to let you drop by with no real convo.
Lose her number,....
Females don't wanna talk and get to know you or none of that bullshyt.
They just want a guy who is caw character blacked out when it comes to if they know you.
The more you do shyt that resembles chivalry.
that females don't subscribe to and have not for a long ass time.
You will lose....
I know it sounds crazy but with females.
The wrong way is the right way, damn near as principle.
You just have to learn how to finesse using all the wrong shyt, they like.
As, y'all forget females like worlds and they love stealing the world.
from the guy who learned to use all the wrong shyt to get by.
They like the undesirable traits of men cause females are sheltered and envy men.
So, they want to know how it all works and how to get it to all work in your favor, and their's.

A female does not want to be in the world of a guy who follows outdated simp methods from good guy game.
Good guy game females outlawed.
You, can not be a good guy to females and please stop trying to bebin committal long term relationships with them faking a nut for a relationship.
Which is what the women you are describing do and they are undesirable too.

Also, all females in general are eic vampires over the age of twenty two.
So, you gon have to start studying the matrix of undesirable females.
Plus what makes them tick to get on, to get by and satiate your libido .


Art Barr

Oh and for you talembout a negative perspective of nikkaz.
Who don't get what I am saying.

This is what you need to know.

If they don't see,...
They not gon see and it is foolish for you.
to help a person who wants to be blind, attempt to see.

Preciate ya homie. I mean I dig that bro. i'm hip to the game... usually its immediate I'm smashing. But like I said, most women who are great great women that I've met, are virgins. THey do not have sex at all. THey never have, and don't plan on it and still hope for the fairy tale man to come up and sign their life away after a year or two to get the coochie.

I usually end up teaching them how to give head and what not eventually... but that's as far as it'll go.

And then I'm trying to put them on game about relationships and life because they have never had a real one.

But then I feel like I'm manipulating them because I know once I get her cummin via oral sex... it's only a matter of time til shes begging.

But I don't want to do that. Guess I'm just not cut for this straight edge, good girl lifestyle.

Has nada to do with attraction becuase like I said, 4 out of the 5 last chicks who have been like this could not keep their hands off of me, they wanted to do everything but sex. As it was "religiously wrong" or "you aren't supposed to have sex before marriage" nonsense.
 
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