sayyestothis
Free the guys
Just to add to this, see what payment options your plan offers if you were to separate.
Also, if you do take it as a tax hit, it's 20% federal tax,any state taxes and a 10% penalty may apply, but speak with a tax advisor if you can be an exception for it.
Thats incorrect it would be a 10% penalty on top of whatever their tax bracket is taxes at but the distribution will bump their income up for the yr.
20% is a default witholding for fed from lump sum distributions but if they are in a higher tax bracket it will be whatever they are getting taxes at.