I'm in college right now living in a dorm with a roommate so I obviously don't have any utility bills at this moment but when I did have an apartment, my utility bills were never that high.
The highest my bill would be in total (gas and electric together) was no higher than around $55 dollars a month

, I'm from NYC btw but used National Grid not ConEd for light and gas services.
I was living in a place where certain things were included so maybe that's why it was never high plus I didn't own a TV so the only appliances plugged in were the refrigerator, stove, and occasional smartphone/laptop charges lol and I hardly ever used my lights expect at night because I'm scared of the dark

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