I could be looking for the negative but why not take women you know are already feeling you?

like....why take the girl who barely answers your texts or calls and cancels more dates than she keeps?
Because the girl that barely answers the text or calls is probably hotter than the rest. Hail mary time.
I wouldn't really call it looking for a negative, you looking at the truth, but the nikka is like "well I want to smash or lock down so why not invite her on a vaca and see what happens". If you aint into him like that, I don't know about going, I know you can get that local D. Now if this dude talking about some fancy spot out the country or something
1-2 days of some good sex and drinks from a girl he's been trying to get at for a while now. And a possible "love" connection...Alot of nikka's would consider that a W
Aint no way I'm inviting a girl on a vaca that aint showing me love or that I dont have some kinda connection with....Unless she paying for everything her self
You also know your history

You don't need to be going on no solo vaca's unless its someone you thanking bout locking down
