Viral Twitter post "I hate being approached by older men"

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Somewhere pawgin in Calabasas,California
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Lil bih was a baddie. I’m only 4 years older as a disclaimer b4:sitdown:
 

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I'm 34. When I was single I'd often have 23-25 year old women approaching me (oftentimes at work or near work), and people tell me all the time they thought I was in my mid to late 20s. IMO a major key is being in decent enough shape to avoid your face getting that round, chubby cheek look. You can tell a dude is older often by that alone, whereas a more defined face is gonna make you look younger assuming you don't got bags under your eyes and shyt. Also keeping current on shyt. Social media, music, whatever. That's why I truly feel like dudes who say they don't like any Drake/Future/etc aren't fukking younger chicks. Nobody is fukking chicks to Griselda.

When I was in the sugar baby life, I used to have 18-20 year old chicks all the time and it never looked weird when we were out in public.

For you in terms of attracting women in their twenties was it better to be clean shaven or to grow out a beard?
 

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42 male 37 female this is common
35 male 27 female this is also normal

now

44 male 22 female... now you just a trick


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Exactly. As a woman, I can totally acknowledge that age gaps are a thing and aren’t a big deal within reason. Depending on your age, 5-10 years is whatever. When you hit those 15+ gaps you know the man isn’t there for your personality and you better be there for more than his :ufdup:

One date with an older guy and I had to say forget it. He kept asking about the “younger guys” I must be dating and commenting on how young I looked. I was like “Maybe I shouldn’t be here…” LOL

Stability and provision are certainly important, but attraction and desire are important too. If the amount of money you have is what motivates a woman to want to be with you and sleep with you, that isn’t someone who actually WANTS you.
 

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No it’s not, it’s just beginning. Black don’t crack and 32 is not old anyway.
Right. This isn’t really about the guys in this age range. This is about the 40, 50 somethings thinking a 20YO will want them for “them”. LOL

I was a freshman and an objectively “hot” professor in his 30s tried to convince me to have sex with him for an A in his class.

I never went back and prepared to tell my parents that I got an F and would just retake the course with a diff professor.
He passed me anyway, because he knew he was wrong.

He did look good for his age, but he did look older and he was an authority figure. Every young girl isn’t down for that, especially if you come from a family that actually provides for you.
 

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Right. This isn’t really about the guys in this age range. This is about the 40, 50 somethings thinking a 20YO will want them for “them”. LOL

I was a freshman and an objectively “hot” professor in his 30s tried to convince me to have sex with him for an A in his class.

I never went back and prepared to tell my parents that I got an F and would just retake the course with a diff professor.
He passed me anyway, because he knew he was wrong.

He did look good for his age, but he did look older and he was an authority figure. Every young girl isn’t down for that, especially if you come from a family that actually provides for you.
That’s sexual harassment, I’m sorry you went through that sis. He should be out of a job.
 

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Dont worry about him darling. Hes been keeping up with the Kardashians so long,he forgot what classic beauty looks like:mjlol:. You really have some pretty eyes by the way. Reminds me of an actress from back in my day named Cree Summer. She was on a wonderful show I uses to watch called A Different World. But anyway,keep that beautiful spirit of yours up young lady.


This is how you talk to younger women as an older man:respect:. Tried to tell yall you cant approach these young women the same way as their 20 year old peers,but yall threw pebbles as usual. Swore you still had a young mans swagger/energy.Whats grossing these women out is the fact you are old and trying to come off as sexy or young. When chances are shes laughing or grossed out on the inside:mjlol:. Better to be seen as adorable and harmless. Then you can switch to being smooth.
This rollercoaster youve sent her on will easily make the p*ssy jump 2-3 times. Not to be vulgar.
🤔 This actually works regardless of your age because you start off being unassuming and you get a woman comfortable before she knows what is going on.

Good post lol
 
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