Vivica Fox: Regrets missing out on Motherhood

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If Superhead can find herself a simp I sure Vivica Fox can as well.:manny:

:dahell: She has a man? Pursue a woman that's famous for giving men in the music industry head brehs. I heard she dated Bill Maher before :patrice:
 

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Feminism didn't make Vivica Fox not have kids, she chose not to have them.
Nobody has said that feminism "made" her do anything. Obviously she chose not to have kids. The story is that she regrets that decision. She also regrets being so shallow in regards to choosing the men in her life. The relevancy that feminism has is that it teaches women to think that having a career and being an "independent" woman is better than being a mother who is dedicated to raising a family. Feminism also teaches women that they should think and act like men in regards to how they behave socially.
 

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Not this shyt again. If she wanted kids she would have had them. If Beyoncé can have kids so can Vivica. What black female entertainer is as career focused as Beyoncé.

Secondly I understand topics like this really get black men animated. It's really the only time where they can feel relevant to the lives of black women.
Yo, how did this garbage ass post get 25+ daps? :dwillhuh:
 

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Nobody has said that feminism "made" her do anything. Obviously she chose not to have kids. The story is that she regrets that decision. She also regrets being so shallow in regards to choosing the men in her life. The relevancy that feminism has is that it teaches women to think that having a career and being an "independent" woman is better than being a mother who is dedicated to raising a family. Feminism also teaches women that they should think and act like men in regards to how they behave socially.
men shouldn't even behave like that, which is the thing. Black men anyway.
 

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men shouldn't even behave like that, which is the thing. Black men anyway.
A man should wait until he's established and able to at least lead a family before starting one. I wouldn't advise women to think like that. I'd advise women to find a man who's committed and capable of leading a family before starting one.
 

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A man should wait until he's established and able to at least lead a family before starting one. I wouldn't advise women to think like that. I'd advise women to find a man who's committed and capable of leading a family before starting one.
It would be nice if we could grow with the woman though. That way when you look back and visualize all the memories of the struggle and the come up, she was there. So i kinda disagree on that. Only thing that limits that is the women being down with that or not. Which, eh, you know how that goes...


EDIT: Which reminds me of something i wrote awhile back (STUDY: Men choose Internet porn over marriage for sex)
 

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im not aware of any Gabby trauma.
the comments that i saw atributed to her were along these same career lines.
Im willing to be corrected if Im wrong.

ftr Im not attacking anyone
just saving my sympathy for others.

Gabby was raped. I forgot the when, where details, but I remember it from watching her on Oprah. Working probably helped her get her mind from that.
 

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An unhappy black woman, the coli's favorite thing.

And there are plenty of feminists with children. She just waited too long to have them naturally, she can always adopt or have a surrogate. But only on the coli is a woman villainized and laughed at for wanting a career and not making motherhood her only goal in life.

You're cute and I love you!
 

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It would be nice if we could grow with the woman though. That way when you look back and visualize all the memories of the struggle and the come up, she was there. So i kinda disagree on that. Only thing that limits that is the women being down with that or not. Which, eh, you know how that goes...


EDIT: Which reminds me of something i wrote awhile back (STUDY: Men choose Internet porn over marriage for sex)

We did the struggle/build together
It makes where we're at now even sweeter.
 

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Another feminist logical fail. What's new? The truth of the matter is that neither men nor women can have it all. They're are major advantages and some slight disadvantages to both men and women following traditonal gender roles but the end product (THE COMMUNITY) is way better off than ever.
 
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