How about do the best to be there for and protect your family?There is no justifying his snitching. So much is flaw in his trying to explain why he did it...
The guys who will tell while facing Life will typically tell facing 20; the guy who will tell facing 20 will tell facing 10, on and on...
Take your time like a man. You can tell dude is someone who never felt that heat before, because of course when they get you in the room they gonna ask you to flip and tell you they gonna nail everyone around you. Of course they will, and he was stuttering and bumbling as soon as they pressed him...