Wacka flocka ask a very logical question to all ladies

[AQz]

Why are y’all “splitting” bills in marriage??
Do y’all know what marriage is??

I think you took it a little too literally. What if it said how do you want to be married and not contribute financially but divorce and expect half.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Hope you're trolling.. And "splitting" bills don't always have to be 50/50..

88% of married women would prefer not to work. Facts. Why would a woman want to get married if her dude isn't providing? shyt doesn't make sense does it. Some broads will share that dude if he can provide they'd rather that then be with a faithful breh who's a bomb. Only 20% of men can get a girl make sure you in that 20% breh and if you're a provider you will stay there.

 

[alpo]

Keep playing that game if you want to.

I y’all don’t understand my point, nikka I ain’t no simp

 

[alpo]

I think you took it a little too literally. What if it said how do you want to be married and not contribute financially but divorce and expect half.

I feel you but that’s buddy fault, he should had peeped game before getting married

 

[T’Challa’s Heir]

No no no you seeing it all wrong. I meant if I make 50 and she make 60 that’s 110 coming into the household, why are we splitting bills??

the problem is a lot of women aren’t gonna wanna throw that whole 60 in the household fund. They’ll throw in 10 or 20 while spending the rest on themselves.

 

[JQ Legend]

because of a man made law that says if you contract to take care of someone then that's what you gonna do when you break the contract
he should be asking men

i would get a prenup though

Where in marriage does it say the man has to take care of the woman?

And by that logic, it should be null and void if it’s the woman who breaks the contract.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

88% of married women would prefer not to work. Facts. Why would a woman want to get married if her dude isn't providing? shyt doesn't make sense does it. Some broads will share that dude if he can provide they'd rather that then be with a faithful breh who's a bomb. Only 20% of men can get a girl make sure you in that 20% breh and if you're a provider you will stay there.

Bro nobody wants to work, doesn't matter, they still gotta wake their ass up in the morning lmao

You both have your bank accounts, and then a third shared account for you both to put money for bills and other living expenses into. Plenty of women out here married for 10+years and been working even while pregnant.

 

[Jekyll]

I y’all don’t understand my point, nikka I ain’t no simp

It ain’t about being a simp. In alot of states, once her name goes on the account, she can legally clean you out at any point. Imma just let you think about how that could go wrong.

 

[alpo]

the problem is a lot of women aren’t gonna wanna throw that whole 60 in the household fund. They’ll throw in 10 or 20 while spending the rest on themselves.

that a conversation they should had. If a woman doing that , why did you marry her? A lot you nikkas don’t want accountability for your choices

 

[Apollo Creed]

that a conversation they should had. If a woman doing that , why did you marry her? A lot you nikkas don’t want accountability for your choices

You dont meet a women until you’re married and she is pregnant, thats when you meet the real her.

all that “choose better” stuff is magical fairy tales from people who got married in a time where men and women actually needed each other.

at the end of the day if a man gets legally married the only vetting he needs to do is confirming if he can take a potential L financially, anything else is fairy tales

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

the problem is a lot of women aren’t gonna wanna throw that whole 60 in the household fund. They’ll throw in 10 or 20 while spending the rest on themselves.

They shouldn't be throwing the whole 60 in. You calculate your average on electricity, water, heating, TV etc. And then both decide how much will be taken out of your accounts each month automatically into that shared account that the companies will take from each month.

The money in your separate accounts is yours to do what you will with. I'm not trying to be one of these loser sitcom husbands talknbout "I would get the 65 inch TV but I gotta check with my wife. Yeah I would buy the hellcat but my wife gon be mad" fuuuuuuck oouuuta heeeere with that shyt nikka

 

[T’Challa’s Heir]

that a conversation they should had. If a woman doing that , why did you marry her? A lot you nikkas don’t want accountability for your choices

That’s a different premise than what you asked. You were confused about the splitting bills aspect of it. A lot of women refuse to go 50/50. Or quickly back out of it in the marriage.

 

[alpo]

You dont meet a women until you’re married and she is pregnant, thats when you meet the real her.

all that “choose better” stuff is magical fairy tales from people who got married in a time where men and women actually needed each other.

at the end of the day if a man gets legally married the only vetting he needs to do is confirming if he can take a potential L financially, anything else is fairy tales

Yeah yeah yeah excuses

 

[Commish]

I think it is a valid question...

Personally, I am not going to pay for everything. I live in a high cost of living state. I have bills. I have two mortgages. Why should I have to pay for everything when my spouse also have a job?

Nowadays, it takes two incomes to live comfortable. However, some marriages or relationships can thrive and survive with one income, but the bread winner need to make a significant amount of money.

Bottomline..

There is no such thing as a come up or lick when it comes to marriage. But, that's me...

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Where in marriage does it say the man has to take care of the woman?

ask waka, he gave the example that's the basis of this topic

whichever way it goes, whoever is taking care of the other and decides to get married that way without any other agreement, the court gonna hold them to it

as to your other point, yeah you can put that in a prenup. it's about damn time yall stop crying about this shyt when all you have to do is make a prenup before getting married.