I don't understand the need to cheat if you as an adult agree to be in a committed relationship with another adult. I chose to be in a relationship because that's what I wanted. If I wanted to fukk other females I'd just stay single.. Its really not worth the headache to me
the thing is most people who enter relationships don't enter it with the goal in mind to cheat, most affairs start innocently just as friends which can lead to an emotional affair which can lead to a physical.
Example I was in a relationship and met this chick at the bus stop she was there every morning when i took the bus we talked every morning, she asked for my phone number, she only lived down the street next thing i know one night at 10pm she texts me if i want to come over and watch a movie, i told her I'm tired and she's like it's ok if you sleep over.
She was

, but I didn't do it. I could have done it, but I didn't.
but you see how easy it is for a man or a woman ?
I'll never cheat though, its just in my code and my fabric, just like if i was dead broke and found a wallet with moiney in it, i'd return the wallet with all the money intact.
But but what if your married and your wife doesn't want to have sex - i've gone three years voluntary celibacy in my prime till i was raped
but but what if your hot ex messages you on facebook and wants to meet up at a hotel - i dont use social media nor do i talk to exes