The negative always overpowers the positive. So you'll always hear about the ain't shyt nikkas who do hoes wrong over dudes who just want a simple relationship and nothing extra. And usually, good brehs have to catch shyt for other nikkas.
We just had an inhouse example a couple weeks ago where dudes were catching shyt for that "number of people you slept with" thread, and just about everyone who posted there was the level headed non troll posters. Yet, they caught shyt as being dry dikk losers who hate women, when those are usually the nikkas who's rep in red and create fukked u
misogynist threads.
But I just let folks cook.