WARNING: The Negative Effects of Masturbation

[nkb97]

You know what....and this might be a stretch....

But it is possible your friend has been sexing her toys so long, she has altered her energy/aura? Let me see if I can put this in a way that makes sense...

So, say the average woman has a certain level of sex appeal to others - based on how she looks, her personality but even more so, the underlying things like her unconscious energy/vibe...even her pheromones. So, the more she is around other ladies or with men, those subtleties in her vibe might change.

To me, this is why some women who are not traditionally attractive might come off as very sexy and someone who everything thinks should be sexy actually gives off "meh" energy. Sexiness is something you pick up on intuitively, not necessarily something your eyes see directly.

Imagine a woman now who has had no authentic, romantic or sexual interactions with a man for 3 years by personal choice...depending on personal circumstances, she might come off as irresistible to others and find herself besting me off with a stick.

If the same woman has been solely having sex with devices for that same amount of time, though, my guess is that it has altered some things about her mind and body physiologically and that would translate in her energy.

Does any of this make sense lol?

I'm having difficulty articulating it clearly, but, in a nutshell, it sounds like there is a relationship between the masturbating everyday itself and her issue with attracting guys.

I wouldn't be surprised if she committed to stopped masturbating all together for at least 6 months, it would bring about an unconscious change in her demeanor and energy and she would start attracting guys without issue.

She's got to build her inner feminine juiciness and magnetism back up; she's likely depleted it by playing with her toys.

So basically, your sex appeal shoots up once you stop? (pun intended btw)

 

[Code]

Expect me to take a video with a penis bone thumbnail seriously brehs

LOL

 

[generic-username]

I know for a fact that excessive masturbating leads to less sensitivity during sex. I remember when I used to masturbate a lot I rarely orgasm during sex cuz my dikk was used to the tight grip of my hand. So I stopped for like two months and the sensitivity returned.

Now I don't even jerk off anymore

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Why haven’t you had sex in so long?

I got dumped
I think... been 5 months so pretty sure iv been dumped

 

[Elle Seven]

lol nah this was very well articulated b. i love the way you broke this down analytically and i'm not even sure if i totally agree yet. need time to think on that but it definitely makes total sense. her excessive masturbation is auto-erotic by nature and as a result her homegirl doesn't emit an inclusive sexual energy. one which would lead to a man feeling that she is even interested in a sexual encounter with another human being. and men don't think about this consciously, the subconscious picks this up and they keep it movin on lil mama. even if she ain't that fly to them, she won't even be two t*ts a hole and a heartbeat status. she's unwittingly ruined her own sexual appeal because the energy isn't there. i dig.....

now granted the flip is that @CarmelBarbie has stressed that she has aesthetic short comings to work on. and knowing how sistas cape for they homegirls ("uh-uh negro, ALL my friends look good!!!" lmao) it's gotta be facts. so there's that to consider. hard to be a real skinny bytch in our community unless you look like prime Aaliyah. but besides that... i'm assuming your breakdown goes for dudes too right? that there's a natural sexual energy that they have neutralized by not masturbating a lot (before nikkas tell me they got a bytch but still jerk off, yeah we know nikka lol) but masturbating a lot AND dealing exclusively with themselves. the sexual energy is distorted and isn't appealing to the opposite sex. which goes into the whole incel shyt, etc etc. damn i'm finna think on this further. dope post right here, repped

I'm happy someone understood lol.

I didn't know how to convey this point in a clearer way. I was approaching the whole act of sexual intercourse and the notion of sex appeal from a metaphysical standpoint, so it makes it hard to explain within the paradigm which treats both as simply physical.

When @CarmelBarbie said she had another friend who is skinnier than this one, who manages to pull without issue, that's when I started thinking it probably has nothing to do with the lady's physical look, at least not entirely.

I'd go so far as to hypothesize there may even be subtle physical changes which have occurred to the lady's person after masturbating with a toy for 3 years. As you said, it is something a man's subconscious mind would more readily recognize about her though, even if he couldn't put his finger on it.

 

[Elle Seven]

So basically, your sex appeal shoots up once you stop? (pun intended btw)

Yes lol...one can become a literal sex pot.


Think about it - dryness (whether it be physical or energetic) is not an appealing quality when it relates to sex, from neither men nor ladies.

 

[Robbie3000]

Every day. She told us that It only takes two minutes for her to make herself cum, so it’s a part of her routine. I don’t get it either. I find it a little perverted tbh but we all have our vices.

Y’all never tried to hook her up with someone? Y’all are bad friends.

 

[The M.I.C.]

I got dumped
I think... been 5 months so pretty sure iv been dumped

Yikes


Sorry to hear that hun

 

[8WON6]

the entire don't fap thing is people projecting their religious shame onto others and masking it behind 'bro science".
do what you want to do behind closed doors as long as you're not hurting anybody. i'd much rather put masterbation than nikkas out here having kids they don't plan for. or catching stds.

 

[BurstWicks]

What were you trying to achieve?

This nikka was trying to see if a golden nut would come out on the 20th fap

 

[morris]

I got dumped
I think... been 5 months so pretty sure iv been dumped

5 months with NO sex?

You don't have male friends with condoms?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I'm happy someone understood lol.

I didn't know how to convey this point in a clearer way. I was approaching the whole act of sexual intercourse and the notion of sex appeal from a metaphysical standpoint, so it makes it hard to explain within the paradigm which treats both as simply physical.

When @CarmelBarbie said she had another friend who is skinnier than this one, who manages to pull without issue, that's when I started thinking it probably has nothing to do with the lady's physical look, at least not entirely.

I'd go so far as to hypothesize there may even be subtle physical changes which have occurred to the lady's person after masturbating with a toy for 3 years. As you said, it is something a man's subconscious mind would more readily recognize about her though, even if he couldn't put his finger on it.

Oh no, the other friend isn’t as skinny, the other friend just has a small little booty and is considered a slim bw, she is also attractive facially...

She’s my girl so I’m trying not to throw her under the bus, but there was one day when she wasn’t around and everyone was going in on her looks. that’s when they brought up giving her a makeover. Unfortunately it is about her looks.

 

[winb83]

#TeamNoFap wins again.

No they don't.

This is the equivalent of arguing that water is bad for you by pointing out that water intoxication exist or that if you add sugar and carbonation to the water it's unhealthy.

Anything in excess is bad for you and porn isn't required for masturbation. The whole crux of the argument is taking things to an excess or adding stuff that's not required.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

5 months with NO sex?

You don't have male friends with condoms?

It’s like people don’t wanna use them anymore they get salty
So here I am having the safest sex which is no sex

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

the entire don't fap thing is people projecting their religious shame onto others and masking it behind 'bro science".
do what you want to do behind closed doors as long as you're not hurting anybody. i'd much rather put masterbation than nikkas out here having kids they don't plan for. or catching stds.

How do these 2 vastly different things even correlate... you saying people beat their dikks don't have b*stard babies.... of course anyone can do what they want in their house if they aint hurting nobody, but that don't make that shyt proper/healthy