Was Breh wrong in this situation

[Mordith]

I operate strictly off of a don't see my ones don't see my guns policy. If I would have paid in a situation like this somebody was giving me back my money.

 

[Steel]

You stole this from twitter op

 

[Kings County]

131 fukk did yall buy

 

[knickscity]

The guy isn't wrong, Britt sounds like a chick he smashing on, not his female. His chick is out of line for suggesting it, and she knows he ain't cheap since her paid for her. Her friend should have settled her bill herself. I've had cards decline in the past because the purchase looked fraudulent, I just used another card, and called my bank to state it was me.

 

[skokiaan]

its obvious this chick wasnt dime status

 

[thatdude954]

What about her debit?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Breh was not wrong at all. There's no way in hell he was wrong. Nothing more annoying than the ambush, "you gotta pay for my friend" bullshyt.

which is why he should have asked from jump

not saying he wrong.. but i don't even put myself in that nonsense.. "yea she can come..... she paying for herself right?"

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

131 fukk did yall buy

3 people... shyt that's 3 25 dollar plates and a alcoholic drink each.. don't even throw in appetizers and desserts


shyt at first i thought HER bill was 131 alone

 

[aXiom]

Breh was not wrong, but I suspect that he ended up paying for the bill. If I was in this situation, I can’t say for certain that I would not pay, but I can say that I would not automatically pay. I would have something stern to say about it because for someone to automatically put the responsibility on me to cover the entire bill is ridiculous!

Lastly, if I did pay for the tab, it would be my last time going anywhere with the broke chick that involves $ until she reimburses me and even then I doubt it would happen. Britt may get CTTG unless she go through a major paradigm shift or start breaking bread when she decides to invite her homegirls to dinner events.

You already lost at this point.. once the bill is paid, nothing you say going forward is going to matter. It's a principle thing, Britt should have known to never try dude like that and since she didn't she now has to learn the hard way at the expense of her friend being embarrassed. Britt should have pulled out her card with the quickness as that's HER best friend.. smh.

Whether freely given or commanded, respect is a must. People often trade it to save face among friends or acquaintances. Anyone that puts you in these types of positions aren't people you want to be hanging out with.

 

[1thouwow]

If I Pay, I’m fukkin the friend too

 

[Colilluminati]

Chase will deny you out of town tho

 

[Fatboi1]

I would've been like

You need Chase Number?

 

[010101]

it's about to get shaky with your lady

watch her she might be seeking new entertainment soon

*

 

[Phitz]

Similar situation happend to me some time back
We didnt' go to the restaurant BUT my girl's home girl wanted to go out for desert. My girl at that time was a year out of school and just bought her condo so she was broke. Her homegirl wanted to go for dessert. My girl was like 'I dont' have money to do much right now.' I told her, I had her covered. Why did her friend act as if I should cover all of them? We didnt go but that was the beginning of the end.

In the OP scenario, if it was the last girl I was with or the one I'm with now they wouuld have paid for their friend and called it a day...OR we would have chipped in together to cover her. That would be MY only time, especially since I didn't know her.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Never entertain a woman who would put you in a position like this.

The biggest simps are dudes who wine and dine women while dating in hopes of having sex.