Was buddy wrong or right for this? (Confronting bully from high school)
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Im with the other guy. Dusty guy probably aint even know this clown existed. I know this to be a good possibility because my homegirl said her husband hates me because we supposedly got into it back in highschool and I swear on everything I aint never seen dude in my life until we were 30 something. I heard his name and knew what crew he ran with but cant remember ever even seeing him, let alone throwing hands with him. People really do create their own worlds and think its reality.
Not saying this isn't possible. But to hold on to that much vitriol, I'm not buying that
(hopefully this isn't some staged shyt, cause I'm starting to think it was).
surprised he didn't call out his hairline.
You saw that car. Muthafukka probably bald hisself.
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First off it weird as fukk to me that this generation pull out they phone for EVERYTHING to upload online.
Oan : He going in on the man based on some high school shyt and trying to floss a bucket at that. I think we all roasted, someone in middle and high school. The thing is growing out of that psyche. When I was a child I thought as a child, etc etc etc, y'all know the rest. Also he's doing all that who's to say that he won't be in the same position in 5-10 years. He would've done better getting the dude a hot meal or hot cup of coffee
or something. Too often mutafah get caught up in a VERSUS of Me vs You or some overall materialistic shyt....when you laying on a horizontal in a 
are you going to be able to take that shyt with you? He could've held a dialogue with the brother cause you don't know the backstory as to why he's in that situation.
The dude gave him that look when he kicked his butters
, and we all know "I'll breaking yo mothafukking jaw" look but once again he got the phone on, but I'm 1000% sure he's not going roll up on someone with that same energy on that same time he on in that video.
Oan : He going in on the man based on some high school shyt and trying to floss a bucket at that. I think we all roasted, someone in middle and high school. The thing is growing out of that psyche. When I was a child I thought as a child, etc etc etc, y'all know the rest. Also he's doing all that who's to say that he won't be in the same position in 5-10 years. He would've done better getting the dude a hot meal or hot cup of coffee
or something. Too often mutafah get caught up in a VERSUS of Me vs You or some overall materialistic shyt....when you laying on a horizontal in a are you going to be able to take that shyt with you? He could've held a dialogue with the brother cause you don't know the backstory as to why he's in that situation.The dude gave him that look when he kicked his butters
, and we all know "I'll breaking yo mothafukking jaw" look but once again he got the phone on, but I'm 1000% sure he's not going roll up on someone with that same energy on that same time he on in that video.Breh don't be this naive. Some people will hold on to grudges to their death bed and the more they think about how they were "wronged" the more vitriol their thoughts of revenge gets.
People get killed over grudges other people had against them that they didn't even know. This here is light
TLR trying to downplay the condition the bum's in. "Still cooler"
I was on the receiving end of relentless bullying and my rage is just the same as back then. I'm living a completely different life now. I will be flexing with the same cold brutality that I was bullied with anytime the opportunity arises. Fortunately for them, we're no longer in the same socio-economic range, so the chances of meeting any of them are slim.
sounds like you too soft to meet them where they are.
'ole if i see 'em ass...
go get 'em now!
Didn't know so many coli brehs were holding onto middle/highschool rage. Let it go, you're only harming yourself by holding all that inside. Those people no longer exist, they were kids then and are adults now.
How many of us could ever stand up to being held accountable for things we did as kids? Most of us would be doing some type of jail time. Guy behind the camera needs some serious therapy.
How many of us could ever stand up to being held accountable for things we did as kids? Most of us would be doing some type of jail time. Guy behind the camera needs some serious therapy.
desjardins
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Hurt people hurt people
The cyclical nature of it here is sad to observe
Homeless dude was probably a bully in HS cause of the demons he had in his personal life
Those demons probably lead him to drugs/mental illness and eventually homelessness
That soul he hurt in HS then came back to haunt him , afflicting the same trauma and hurt on him in the future
The cyclical nature of it here is sad to observe
Homeless dude was probably a bully in HS cause of the demons he had in his personal life
Those demons probably lead him to drugs/mental illness and eventually homelessness
That soul he hurt in HS then came back to haunt him , afflicting the same trauma and hurt on him in the future
MajesticLion
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The sheer number of people looking to resolve old trauma via social media is disturbing.
All that "look at me" vibes ain't gonna work.
All that "look at me" vibes ain't gonna work.
I would just hand dude some money and and tell him I hope things work out for him. Him being in that condition, if he was some guy that bullied me through my teenage years, would just reinforce to me that I made the right decision not being like him.
I would go to my home, in my car, and tell my wife who I saw and the condition he is in; but I would not try to hammer in on him how bad his circumstances look. That act would be the action of a person who has never matured beyond his High School years, in my view.
I would go to my home, in my car, and tell my wife who I saw and the condition he is in; but I would not try to hammer in on him how bad his circumstances look. That act would be the action of a person who has never matured beyond his High School years, in my view.
I don't disagree.
My point was you never know how a mufukka will hold onto shyt if they believe you were shytting on them too hard.
I think it's weak too, esp if you didn't handle it then. But who I am to tell someone else how to handle their trauma
Don't fukk with people and you won't have this problem.