Was he really rude in his approach?

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Thats how some females react when they're not interested. Its whatever. I've gotten that too. Also gotten the ":pachaha:is this nikka serious?"

All in the game.

Just play the next thot in her honor.
Soon as she said no I don't have a name

He should of kept it moving and not turn back


:manny:
Now he comes of as thirsty
 

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THIS! Yes she definitely could have handled it better but he damn sure should have caught a clue when she didn't stop/turn around to engage him. Some dudes said the I'm good was an indication a conversation could proceed. No the I'm good without turning around/stopping was a nice way of saying no thank you. No matter what I'm doing, I could be running late and having bad day, etc., if I want to talk to you I'll stop and give you my full attention.
why do you need a nice way to say no thank you... how about... i don't know.... saying no thank you


i see this retarded shyt all the time....... "this man won't leave me alone, stop calling me, stop texting me, stop messaging me............."


"have you blocked him, told him to stop, done anything direct"


"no he just get the hint"

"bytch what you hinting for?? you don't even like the nikka"
 

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Soon as she said no I don't have a name

He should of kept it moving and not turn back


:manny:
Now he comes of as thirsty
he did... she baited him back by throwing more shots.. he clearly had his head and back turned after she said no... she came back calling him rude... for what?? ASKING if he could have her name... so he defended his actions....


thirsty would have been if she said no... and he kept pressing trying to get her... after the no... he was like ok cool.... wait hold up, now you trying to disrespect me? and STILL didn't come out his mouth with anything crazy...

can't fault a man for defending his actions
 

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he did... she baited him back by throwing more shots.. he clearly had his head and back turned after she said no... she came back calling him rude... for what?? ASKING if he could have her name... so he defended his actions....


thirsty would have been if she said no... and he kept pressing trying to get her... after the no... he was like ok cool.... wait hold up, now you trying to disrespect me? and STILL didn't come out his mouth with anything crazy...

can't fault a man for defending his actions
True but come on anytime a chick says

'I don't have a name'

What is their to defend...take the small L and Kim

Plus he should of came at her directly :manny:
 

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Prolly the same type of chick who complains about there being "no more good men left" or "why don't men approach me?" or some shyt. :mjlol:

fukk that boss-eyed bytch.
 

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why do you need a nice way to say no thank you... how about... i don't know.... saying no thank you


i see this retarded shyt all the time....... "this man won't leave me alone, stop calling me, stop texting me, stop messaging me............."


"have you blocked him, told him to stop, done anything direct"


"no he just get the hint"

"bytch what you hinting for?? you don't even like the nikka"

Any woman will tell you flat out saying no thank you could end in us getting abused/killed and even if we do that doesn't always work. Most of us try to be nice in our rejection due to some men not being able to handle flat out rejection. If I tell you I'm good, etc. and KEEP WALKING or DON'T GIVE YOU ANY ATTENTION I'm not interested. I'm one woman who told you no. Ask another. I can't tell you how many times I've told a man cordially no thank you I'm not interested or I am not single with a smile and he comes back with well can you have friends or proposes some side dude scenario. I'm not dumb I know that means you're willing to hang on and potentially get crumbs I throw on the floor. shyt is mad annoying that even when I am nice and flat out tell some men no they try to force it. This is why if a dude presses me out for my number I'll give it to him and tell him to call it while he's standing right there. After we go our separate ways I'll immediately add him to my blocked list. I don't have time to get injured or killed because some man felt entitled. I'll do what I need to do to put an end to the situation.

It's all about body language. Most of men are too focused on getting the girl they fail to realize the girl is not opening herself up for communication without blatantly being a bytch about it. Then when she is a blatant bytch she doesn't know how to act and will never get a man blah blah blah.
 
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Any woman will tell you flat out saying no thank you could end in us getting abused/killed and even if we do that doesn't always work. Most of us try to be nice in our rejection due to some men not being able to handle flat out rejection. If I tell you I'm good, etc. and KEEP WALKING or DON'T GIVE YOU ANY ATTENTION I'm not interested. I'm one woman who told you no. Ask another. I can't tell you how many times I've told a man cordially no thank you I'm not interested or I am not single with a smile and he comes back with well can you have friends or proposes some side dude scenario. I'm not dumb I know that means you're willing to hang on and potentially get crumbs I throw on the floor. shyt is mad annoying that even when I am nice and flat out tell some men no they try to force it. This is why if a dude presses me out for my number I'll give it to him and tell him to call it while he's standing right there. After we go our separate ways I'll immediately add him to my blocked list. I don't have time to get injured or killed because some man felt entitled. I'll do what I need to do to put an end to the situation.

It's all about body language. Most of men are too focused on getting the girl they fail to realize the girl is not opening herself up for communication without blatantly being a bytch about it. Then when she is a blatant bytch she doesn't know how to act and will never get a man blah blah blah.
I'm just a different type of man I guess. Not even on no bragging shyt. Cause really, persistence has gotten a lot of women who said no at first

But me personally. Tell me nah and I'm like "ok have a nice day". But some women like to be pursued. Attitude one second, you in the drawls two weeks later


I guess we get labeled like yall do. Cause women will say I got a man, and sit there and entertain you hollering for 20 more mins, smiling and laughing and will let you smash if you keep at it. I've seen it. So I guess dudes feel if I keep trying. And she ain't saying no then she must be liking it

Same way you'd feel if I tried with you. You'd think, well if I say no flat out. He might hurt me or keep trying. Based off what you've seen other men go through

I can't front. When I talk to my female friends. And they tell me the crazy, weird, corny, psycho, and retarded shyt thats done to them..... I feel so bad for yall
 
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Men need to understand this...



"Women don't know what they want, but we do know what we DON'T want."


Before you approach a woman, you should at least try to establish eye contact first. Smile at her. If she smiles back, then try to start a conversation speaking clearly and directly. Continue to read her body language. Does she seem interested? If yes, proceed. If not... Leave. Her. Alone.


Women know on sight rather a man is her type. If she would date him, phuck him. Everything. And much like men, we look at what we want. Can't take our eyes off it. If a woman is steady walking away from you (like the girl in this vid) or blatantly avoiding eye contact. SHE. DONT. WANT. YOU.

A woman is not required to converse with some strange man (yes, you ARE a "strange man" if she doesn't know you) just because he said "Hi", and thinks she's cute.

I am not sure if this is where his pursuit began (I don't think it was) but if it is, she could have rejected him a little nicer. Maybe, "no thanks... I gave a boyfriend." As opposed to, "I don't have a name". That was much.
 
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