Was I wrong for saying this to my wife? Dead fish chronicles. .Reborn

[Kane1]

Good luck my dude




At the end of the day.....if your life ain't right then it's your fault

 

[a murda]

I think he did address it. Just in a passive aggressive way.

OK ok....I've been called out by few a family members as being passive aggressive


But I don't think I can control it

 

[newworldafro]

Your supposed to use water based lubricants....

Accidentally break the condom, while masturbating, and impregnate the palm of your hand brehs.

 

[|r|e|a|d|]

So what you said sum slick shyt u human right? So you supposed to just sit down be pissed, eat shyt and stfu to protect her feelings mean while you dieing inside?

f' alladat, sound like she got in her feelings because you came with a dose of reality and truth, most broads cant handle that

 

[CinnaSlim]

True. But why is it on him alone if BOTH of their relationship's in shambles. Clearly they both see that there are problems, why is it only HIS responsibility to address it? Atleast he did, albeit passive aggressively (which I hate btw).

Because the thread is about him. I am not in contact with his wife. She didn't ask for critique.

Everyone needs self-accountability. I never said he was the only one responsible but if he has a problem, he can only control himself. Either address it or accept it.

 

[shutterguy]

Bruh 3 months?! What's going on son... she cheating on you?

You shouldn't have said that, but if she ain't paying for nothing then that's all on you bruh.

No sex for three months, sex so bad you reject her ?

Your relationship is over breh.

And you didn't say anything wrong; you should be resentful

. How is that even possible going for 3 months in a relationship with no sex and you 2 are both healthy adults.

 

[CinnaSlim]

OK ok....I've been called out by few a family members as being passive aggressive


But I don't think I can control it

Then recognize when you do it. Apologize and try to do better. If you can't control the future, focus on the present.

 

[shutterguy]

I hear you op, I'm not saying she's right. I'm just saying that even though I get why you said that, you shouldn't have said that.
When you do things like that it gives the other person now an excuse to blame you instead of changing their own behavior.

I posted more in response to Thomas upthread.

Ya'll need to communicate better and either get it together or get gone.

Wishing you luck either way

Bottom line that is it. I've learned this as I've gotten older especially in relationships, no sense in wasting each others time.

 

[BrehWyatt]

He's obviously unhappy. One hopes he gets out of the situation.

Well, I gathered that. I'm trying to figure out why he's unhappy. Outside of the "Haven't had sex in three months" thing, he hasn't explicitly said much of anything that someone could point to as an issue in the relationship. I understand that talking to the Coli isn't like talking to your spouse, and I get that some things are between a man and woman in a relationship, but on what little I have to go on, it doesn't seem as if he communicates well when it comes to explaining shyt that frustrates or angers him (like, we keep asking him what his wife brings to the table and what is frustrating him and we don't get anything). And that's fine, hell, several people struggle with that. But you have to be at your absolute clearest when trying to work through issues with your significant other.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Deadfish Chronicles been going on since 2012 and no resolution in sight.

I feel like a DBZ episode watching niccaz power up and talk shyt for half a season. SMH.

We know by now you aint leaving so I aint got shyt to tell u

 

[benjamin]

Damn bruh, no sex for 3 months..get on that before it becomes 6 months..when the sex goes, everything else follows. You should be having sex atleast 1 a week, even if it's wack..

 

[a murda]

Well, I gathered that. I'm trying to figure out why he's unhappy. Outside of the "Haven't had sex in three months" thing, he hasn't explicitly said much of anything that someone could point to as an issue in the relationship. I understand that talking to the Coli isn't like talking to your spouse, and I get that some things are between a man and woman in a relationship, but on what little I have to go on, it doesn't seem as if he communicates well when it comes to explaining shyt that frustrates or angers him (like, we keep asking him what his wife brings to the table and what is frustrating him and we don't get anything). And that's fine, hell, several people struggle with that. But you have to be at your absolute clearest when trying to work through issues with your significant other.

this post right here got me

 

[Won Won]

I know what i said mightve came out wrong but it was said out frustration and stress...

You need to tell her that instead of shytting on her in front of strangers

 

[MsReal]

You sound like my friend goes without sex for up to sex months, drags he's wife to me for hours, says he is leaving her monthly.

Then they have a big fight and he ends up simping he's way back to her. I've told him to suck that Shyt up, that's what he loves, stop wasting my Time telling me/ all he's friends different.

 

[wickedsm]

I sometimes like when my wife plays dead fish during sex

Like a game to see where she has to break character and admit she loves it?


If not then forget I mentioned it.