I realize that shyt might not even matter that much

I grew up in a two parent household (step dad) and regularly spent time with my biological father. Looking back I still think I grew up in a dysfunctional family. We just had more income and I didn't grow up poor. I say it might not even matter because I think a single mother that's actually on her shyt >>>>>>>>>>> a two parent household where both parents on some bullshyt.
I think being raised around/by men helped me in a lot of ways, but i'm not a dumb nikka. i would have learned those lessons anyway. i think having a father is much more beneficial to a black woman. my wife grew up in a two parent household where the dad made 6 figures and the mom didn't even work. her perspective on life and what a black man is/should be is WAY different than what a lot of other black women i dated think. like night and day. little shyt like not arguing or thinking she my equal never even came up because she was raised in an environment where a strong black man took care of his family instead of a thot single mom running round teaching her "she don't need no man" and all that dumb shyt