my cousin has been dating this chick for about 15 months, about 9 months into the relationship she was laid off. Well, she hasnt been looking for a job. It started bothering my cousin after the first month but he really didnt say anything up until it hit like the 2 month mark. Well, he brings it up to her and she says that as long as she is able to pay her bills its none of his concern (she is on unemployment). Well about a month ago she comes to him for money for groceries and he tells her no, because she has chosen not to even look for a job and she is not even looking for a job. She got pissed telling him that he should want to help her. His response was that he would be willing to help if she was actively looking for a job and unable to get hired, but that he wouldnt help when she is just sitting at home watching tv plus he reminded her that she told him it was non of his concern and that she was able to pay her bills. Mind you she also bought a dog during this period