In the example given in this thread so far, it would be very difficult to feel remorse for her. If it really happened the way that she described it, then, that is rape, but no one in the comments told her that she was in any way at fault for the events that led up to it.
In this other one (I hope that it posts), the person says that it's consensual, but when you get to the comments, the first one there is saying that it was actually sexual assault, and is providing, for lack of a better phrase, a snitch hotline to get the guy jammed up.