was the boyfriend wrong or not ?

[Hungerpain]

I'll say this as a breh who owns his house. I never charge brehettes rent to live with me. But if they want anything beyond the basic expenses, lights, heat, water. I expect them to contribute. Meaning you got our netflix, Wifi, things like that.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Every single day the streets be calling
Do what it takes to keep from falling
All I know is how to hustle, man
So I stay on it

 

[Berry]

She's not entitled to honestly.
They're not married he owes her nothing.

I would disagree. He is not required to let her live there free sure, my point was being upfront about it. He was making it out to seem as if he did not own the house at all. If he wants her to pay rent and/or contribute to bills that is fine, the key is being straight up.

 

[Hungerpain]

I would disagree. He is not required to let her live there free sure, my point was being upfront about it. He was making it out to seem as if he did not own the house at all. If he wants her to pay rent and/or contribute to bills that is fine, the key is being straight up.

Whether he owns the house or not is irrelevant and none of her business.
If he wants her to pay rent to live in his house under false pretenses that's his choice.
Again he owes her nothing.

 

[Berry]

Whether he owns the house or not is irrelevant and none of her business.
If he wants her to pay rent to live in his house under false pretenses that's his choice.
Again he owes her nothing.

I disagree, successful relationships are largely built on trust and honesty. If you cannot be honest about your homeownership than you should not be letting that individual live in your home.

Co-habitation should be a stepping stone to a long lasting, serious relationship. A serious relationship should value building together as well as helping eachother.

Lying and believing it’s okay goes against those values, doesn’t make sense for a healthy relationship.

At the end of the day no one is forcing you to do anything sure, but in terms of what I believe to represent a healthy and successful relationship, all that is a no. Man or woman.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Foul

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

He should have charged her rent...












...up front

 

[King Poetic]

First off... for 4 years and you 2 paying rent, not once you ever thought about paying the rent yourself or together, but you simply give him the money and let him do it without a receipt

 

[TRFG]

I want to shake that brehs hand.


Bought mi brudda a new car

 

[Morose Polymath]

her imaginary bf was wrong for lying.

This. The shyt that bird yappin about aint real.

 

[Gold]

He should have told her straight up from an honesty tip.

Financially though he did nothing wrong

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Yeah he is wrong because it’s dishonest, if he wanted her to go in on the bills he could’ve just had an honest talk about splitting it in some form. Lying to pay the note just blows up the whole relationship dynamic, and stamps him as a dishonest person. If you would lie and scheme to do that, what else would you do?

Exactly!!! Just went through a situation where a girl lied to me about something so small. I automatically put her in the dishonest box. It was such a stupid lie but i knew anything she says, ill never believe her. I can't be around anyone who lies. Just the way i was brought up.