Was the father wrong or right?

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As official coli girl-dad representative, I lol'd :mjlol: she need to find another dance or sit her lil ass down
 

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He was wrong, and he kicked her too hard. She's crying afterwards and doesn't even know why she's I'm trouble or why he kicked her like that...

I have a 1-year old who started doing that infant handstand out the blue, her mom laughs and sings this "shake your booty" song and my daughter laughs too and turns that into other weird infant dances. I'll say something in a jokingly stern voice like, "we ain't shaking no booties over here, Calliope", and I've nudged her with my foot. She'll either stop or keep going but either way she isn't in real trouble, she's 1 and can't even talk yet, she don't know what the fukk she doing...

It's all cute and fun and I definitely have never KICKED her so hard it drives her head into the floor. He outta pocket for that...

Now, I have 4 and soon-to-be 6 year old daughters, who picked up this "boots shake" thing from somewhere, and it's cute to their mother abd she hypes it on. I'm more stern with them depending on the occasion----->I don't want to strip my girls of innocence they haven't lost yet, there's nothing sexual about the dances until it's made sexual, whether verbally or otherwise. But when they get on a run with it I shut it down, when they in the presence of company other than just Mr I shut it down, and I explained to them we not booty shaking around others...

It's a delicate line, all my daughters are young, and you have to continually evolve as a parent, as a father. This in and of itself isn't a serious offense with a girl my youngest daughter's age, so he was totally wrong in this instance. I'm sure he loves his daughter, though...
 

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no need to kick let alone most infants do that handstand thing around that age 1-2 think 3 also. I may just raise voice slightly and say no booty shaking like that but some kids don’t even talk at that age or not have certain vocabulary. Some do that squat dance also it’s just them being infants they don’t know better but if they are shaking a certain way just say don’t do that that’s all daddy don’t like that. There’s levels to this cuz infants do a variety of movements that can be misinterpreted too.
Even if they don’t speak u should explain cuz they are at the sponge stage too where they can somewhat understand
 

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What an amazing Father :mjcry:

In 18 years, she'll thank him
 
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With how delicate babies are , this could have been a News article instead.
 
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