Was the woman wrong for leaving her man in this situation?

[Chelsea Bridge]

Y’all always ask these dumb, redundant questions. I’m cool with any non-custodial parent paying child support. What, you thought I was going to say that moms shouldn’t have to take care of their kids?

This is a given. I’ve said this before but I know a woman that has been locked up multiple times and unable to get her license for not paying child support. It works both ways

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

If the roles were reversed, would she pay for everything?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

She was right, especially since men expect you to do all the cooking, cleaning, and most of the child care and then you also have to pay for half of everything even though you make a lot less. Might as well not deal with the headache of having a man and do it on your own.

Exactly. You’re cleaning up behind you, him and the children while paying half the bills too... Where’s the benefit for her? Oh she’s not paying full bills? Neither is he but he has the advantage of not having to do any housework or cooking...

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I can’t see the OP’s post but If you’re splitting the bills then you should be splitting the housework and everything else. This is not a hard concept to understand

 

[UberEatsDriver]

You can’t make double and split the bills down the line. That’s not right and financially stupid.

 

[Doodle]

She did him a favor. My money is mine and her money is hers. Any woman that doesn't have that view is not the woman for me.

 

[gogogubari]

It says she left her husband.

Husband.

So I have to ask if they were living together before getting married and if they discussed this sort of thing.

But here is one reality...
If you are paying 500 of a 1000 rent, and you're letting that ego put you into an apartment paying 1000 by yourself...did you really do the smart thing?

Hey. To each his own

she might rent out a cheaper apartment and only have to clean/cook/care for one person.

 

[Marc Spector]

LOL at all the female posters insisting that women implicitly get a "raw deal" because they get stuck with the "burden of having to clean" . Sounds like yall imagine these constant scenarios where a man thinks hes Al Bundy and gets to come home, put his hands in his pants and not have to contribute to any housework whatsoever.

When in reality:

1. Its 2020 and any man of means has lived on his own and should know how to cook or clean (and should be doing so). If he doesn't, thats what youtube is here for . House keeping is no longer a coveted skill this century, nor is it gender specific (just like being in the work force).

2. Speaking as someone who is staying with family ATM and has "clean freak" female family members, theres a stark difference between "the house is becoming un-hygenic" vs "I don't like where your toiletries bag is posted because it doesn't look RIGHT TO ME!" . I find most women conflate the two and are actually on the latter side of the spectrum.

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

"better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God's holy law"

Almost feel sorry for brehs not vetting these creatures.

 

[alpo]

It's alot of women out here who tryin run game on men. They'll go "50/50 and not ask for much." But they don't do it from a genuine place.. It's to get you believing they really some down ass woman. Once they fool you into that thought -- the expectation is that you'll now do anything for em.

The fact that dude was still tryna split bills wit her - shows that they probably had a history of splitting em. When she didn't ultimately get what she game planned for -- she stopped pretending, and showed her true self

im seeing this right now with my bestfriend
Tried to warn him..

 

[Coli Bot]

She did him a favor. My money is mine and her money is hers. Any woman that doesn't have that view is not the woman for me.

Yep they did that when they chose feminism. Dont start changing things now. Equality must mean equality full stop.

 

[SATAN]

Simps exposing themselves in here

 

[Astroslik]

LOL at all the female posters insisting that women implicitly get a "raw deal" because they get stuck with the "burden of having to clean" . Sounds like yall imagine these constant scenarios where a man thinks hes Al Bundy and gets to come home, put his hands in his pants and not have to contribute to any housework whatsoever.

When in reality:

1. Its 2020 and any man of means has lived on his own and should know how to cook or clean (and should be doing so). If he doesn't, thats what youtube is here for . House keeping is no longer a coveted skill this century, nor is it gender specific (just like being in the work force).

2. Speaking as someone who is staying with family ATM and has "clean freak" female family members, theres a stark difference between "the house is becoming un-hygenic" vs "I don't like where your toiletries bag is posted because it doesn't look RIGHT TO ME!" . I find most women conflate the two and are actually on the latter side of the spectrum.

I’m sitting here like because every breh I know cooks and cleans. Those in relationships are breadwinners who do these tasks as well.

In fact, I most likely can cook better than any woman I date and I’m a clean freak. So women who champion those tasks like it’s some trump card has me . I’m not impressed when someone can do basic remedial tasks like cooking and cleaning


And I hire Maria or Guadalupe to clean my crib if I’m too busy with work/feeling lazy

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I don't need a woman's cooking or cleaning. I have a cleaning lady, I cook for myself. You're not my mom, and I'm not your dad. You're either pulling your weight, or you can get fukk outta here and go find someone to save you.

(slow clap)
Grrrrreeeeaaattt. Then we obviously not talking about u. Some be chomping at the bit for a showdown.
None of this bro-babble was necessary. If it’s 50/50 then everything is 50/50. Resources are pooled, split and duties are split as well.

But im referring to the dudes who feel entitled to a woman to pay half while also expecting a full on maid and chef not to mention primary caretaker of kids. That shyt is for the birds.

But as long as you know how to do more than scratch ur balls and neck yap about “making me a sammich” and can knock back some damn dishes and fold a load of laundry and not resent ur mate for having to contribute around the crib so we won’t live in a pigsty then congrats. Ur a reasonable human being. Personally, I never want a maid b/c there’s no excuse as to why two grown ass people can’t clean behind themselves. Besides which I’m ocd about cleanliness so Molly Maid ain’t gon be able to clean to my expectations anyway.

As for her, I said what I said. Hopefully, she didn’t have any kids so she can get out scot free and hit that reset on her life.

Dude wins too, so no harm, no foul.

 

[Doodle]

Yep they did that when they chose feminism. Dont start changing things now. Equality must mean equality full stop.

Yup. You can't tear up the old contract and then try to revert to it when it's to your benefit.