Was this a valid reason to break up with her?

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

nah, I cannot agree with this. My ex cooked every single time, I only ever touched the stove a few times when we lived in separate cities. I would cook for her during her flight so she arrives to a home cooked meal. The rest of the visit would be her cleaning AND cooking for both of us and she would make sure she cooks and leaves me meals packed up in the fridge the night before her return flight. The few months we lived together before our relationship ended, she cooked and cleaned everyday on condition that I do the dishes for supper everyday (which to me was a fair trade for never cooking again). We went half on groceries and rent. The main downside is that she had a young 5 year old son and was always insecure about me leaving her at a moment's notice that it ended up with us having a huge fight were insults were hurled and things we couldn't take back were said. I moved out of the apartment after a month of just "coexisting" and never talked to her again.

A chick's behavior is determined by how she was raised at home. Luckily for me I have never wifed up a chick who won't cook up a storm and clean the place up. Feminine black women exist, you just have to have a keen eye and know what to look for during the "talking" stage.

and after all that you are still describing an "ex" lol. some of these things are just ish basic people latched on to because society told you you should have it that way or this way. a lot of it doesn't matter in the end.

 

[DaddyFresh]

Look, the honest truth is women are lazy, breh. There is no such thing as 50/50 in a successful relationship. As a man you are going to have to do a bare minimum of at least 60-70% of the work domestically while clapping your hands and celebrating her bullshyt azz 10-20% like she's a toddler learning to shyt in the pot.

I dated a girl like this. Bought the groceries, cooked the food, and gave her the rest of the leftovers. This bih crying about cleaning up the pots and dishes I left in the sink. She spent 10 minutes cleaning and 20 minutes biching about it. Finally I was cleaning the dishes too cuz I just wanted peace and quiet. Of course we didn't last.

Realest shyt you ever posted. Women want a Free ride and that’s it. So many bum dudes letting them off the hook it’s the norm. My relationship was exactly the same and yeah didn’t last loool. Once she wanted to be responsible for allocating the money for bills and then she thru in the towel after a couple months when she realized it was work and not just girl boss vibes

 

[Secure Da Bag]

His mistake was not dropping her sooner.

 

[feelosofer]

I don't know what would happen to me if I was dating in this era. It is rough for no reason.

 

[Braman]

I’m only on episode 7 so let me mark my spot and come back for this

I definitely noticed right off bat that they were a bad match. Dude came in with positive energy and she came with the spoiled brat ‘negging’ energy. She would nitpick breh and take his kindness for weakness she thought she had a pushover until he spazzed on her and only then is when she really fell for him and fell in line

That’s how a lot of women are they been having their ass kissed they whole life they want a man who’s gon low key shyt on them. He peeped she was that type and he checked out bc he realized she was a bird. I been in that EXACT position.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

and after all that you are still describing an "ex" lol. some of these things are just ish basic people latched on to because society told you you should have it that way or this way. a lot of it doesn't matter in the end.

Why does it matter that she's an "ex"? Just because she did stuff that I liked doesn't mean that the relationship was bullshyt-proof. She did all that without me having to beg her, which was great. The reason she's an ex is because of her other personality traits that I clashed with that caused a lot of tension and resentment. Just cause we broke up doesn't mean she didn't do a lot of great things. I mean, the fact that she did a lot of things correctly was part of the reason why I made her a girlfriend in the first place. The other shyt I didn't appreciate was the reason we aren't together anymore because all that got worse with time and no amount of communication made things better

 

[24 Hr. Finesse]

Most men don't break up over one thing but a series of red flags or violations.
Buddy did the right thing, she acts like a diva bust is mad lazy and messy.from the state of her apartment, disrespectful, and the way she treated his parents this was the last straw

Dirty ass apartment. Could be a mental health issue


Can't communicate


Hands in pocket like ahe don't care to meet his parents


Overall this woman is a walking red flag,he made the right decision. After all that women on social media is bashing this man

WHOAAAAA!!! Hold theee fukk up

Soooo i missed the ep where they went to apartments. My wife said she was messy af but i had no idea she just dont GAF
Who in the hell leaves their place like this knowin you gotta bring somebody back there for the first time???

Ok so now they need to air their fight cuz if she was as disrespectful as he said she was with that and the pig sty he should been bushed her

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Why does it matter that she's an "ex"? Just because she did stuff that I liked doesn't mean that the relationship was bullshyt-proof. She did all that without me having to beg her, which was great. The reason she's an ex is because of her other personality traits that I clashed with that caused a lot of tension and resentment. Just cause we broke up doesn't mean she didn't do a lot of great things. I mean, the fact that she did a lot of things correctly was part of the reason why I made her a girlfriend in the first place. The other shyt I didn't appreciate was the reason we aren't together anymore because all that got worse with time and no amount of communication made things better

you also indicated many other woman you "wifed up" () had cooked and cleaned. and aint none of them around so clearly it doesn't matter lol
what you gonna say, their personality clashed too? maybe that's the real factor then, none that gender role fantasy you latched on to

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

you also indicated many other woman you "wifed up" () had cooked and cleaned. and aint none of them around so clearly it doesn't matter lol
what you gonna say, their personality clashed too? maybe that's the real factor then, none that gender role fantasy you latched on to

You're coming off as very closed minded and immature. Just cause I broke up with someone then all the things they did right suddenly don't matter? Get outta here

 

[Ziggiy]

Most men don't break up over one thing but a series of red flags or violations.
Buddy did the right thing, she acts like a diva bust is mad lazy and messy.from the state of her apartment, disrespectful, and the way she treated his parents this was the last straw

Dirty ass apartment. Could be a mental health issue

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

You're coming off as very closed minded and immature. Just cause I broke up with someone then all the things they did right suddenly don't matter? Get outta here

this is all things that you said dicchead
it's not about the one woman, you brought up all the women you "wifed up " and acted like them cooking and cleaning was key when it wasn't. exactly what does it matter then? so you can come online and tell other diccheads you had women cooking and cleaning for you and aint gotish to show for it?

 

[24 Hr. Finesse]

This same woman was on DT’s Story series and dropped her friends to travel on a tour bus with some rappers claiming she only cuddled with them, and in another story also ditched her friends and her bf at a club without telling anyone and went awol for the whole night after calling one of her male friends while she had a bf at the time, then chased her bf across a bridge when he tried to leave.
They’ve deleted the videos from their page, which goes to show people try to clean up thier junk when going to find a partner, but leopards don’t change thier spots. @MikelArteta
-edit. The only video of hers they have left up is the one where she talks about how she found out her boyfriend was gay, but they took down the ones where she was the tour bus female and when she left her man and friends at the club. That’s messed up that the only video she’d ask dormtainment to leave up is the one where you’re airing out someone else’s dirty laundry but you want to hide your own under private video.

Annnd she on hoe shyt too?? aww hell nah

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

this is all things that you said dicchead
you brought up all the women you "wifed up " and acted like them cooking and cleaning was key when it wasn't.

I feel bad for any man that has to deal with your poor reasoning skills. Godspeed

 

[Belize King]

They weren’t a match at all. You can tell he did all the talking in the pods. I think she is lazy but sweet. He was ready to leave after two days over something petty.

It’s his way or the highway. He needs a woman he can mold. She wants to be led but he doesn’t she the benefit.

If they had a year or two, he can fix her into his image. They are supposed to get married within two weeks so he saw it as a lost cause. She’s not for him.

Some people are lazy. She seems to be one. That’s not good for him. He’s a mole into mountain type dude.

What do you think @Rev Leon Lonnie Love

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I feel bad for any man that has to deal with your poor reasoning skills. Godspeed

dude you are coming on here trying to brag on "exes". i don't feel sorry for the women that deal with you because they are done with you