Existential
Nothing really matters...
Why is it that so many men can't instantly accept what someone turned to be all along? Why do we cling to idealized versions of people?
We don't care if birds cheat, so why do we care when birds cheat?
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Men are emotionless, we dont stress a bytch
Existential
Nothing really matters...
Sometimes it seems like this is true of more women then men (in regards to how they deal with us). Men get emotionally turbulent and violent in terms of mistreating women they care a lot about, but women sincerely and honestly give no fukks about most men.
Yep
onelastdeath
Banned
I tell nikkas this.
"She would never do that to me, she would never cheat on me"
Anyone is capable of anything. I don't put shyt past anyone.
"She would never do that to me, she would never cheat on me"
Anyone is capable of anything. I don't put shyt past anyone.
Existential
Nothing really matters...
In general, this is good advice to live by because so many people waste time wondering why and how. People can turn on you, when they do, set aside your disbelief and accept what has actually happened.
Dirty_Jerz
Ethiop
We don't care when birds make nests, so why do we care when nests make birds? :...:
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
It's only because women won't show you who they really are for months, you start to like who they are pretending to be. Also, women are quick to react in ways that defy logic. We won't understand because there is no way of understanding. They just do shyt and then try their hardest to justify.
With experience you'll pick up the signs.
I can read women well, even though I'll act all columbo dimwitted slow and aloof even though I'm a step ahead
Im not emotionless but I ain't going to fight something I can't change, cry over someone who doesn't want to be in my life, nor wallow in sadness over someone who disrespects me.
I can read women well, even though I'll act all columbo dimwitted slow and aloof even though I'm a step ahead
Im not emotionless but I ain't going to fight something I can't change, cry over someone who doesn't want to be in my life, nor wallow in sadness over someone who disrespects me.
People fall for illusions, it's like falling in love with an actress in a role, then once the honeymoon period and lights are off you get the stark reality.
You cling and hope that person will return but it was all an act to impress you and get you to fall for them. Now they have takem there final form they've always been kunty, always been skanky, always been a cheater you just were swindled but they conquered that hill so to speak so they can show their true self.
Men and women can't fathom. This is why you hear bs like they were so sweet in the begknnkng I miss that man/woman, they changed. Girl I still know there is some good in him. She's a great gal man she's the one we just clicked early on.
You fell for deception
You cling and hope that person will return but it was all an act to impress you and get you to fall for them. Now they have takem there final form they've always been kunty, always been skanky, always been a cheater you just were swindled but they conquered that hill so to speak so they can show their true self.
Men and women can't fathom. This is why you hear bs like they were so sweet in the begknnkng I miss that man/woman, they changed. Girl I still know there is some good in him. She's a great gal man she's the one we just clicked early on.
You fell for deception
PicoRoscoe
Pro
fukk THESE HOES!!!!!!!
IDGAF WHAT A HOE WANNA DO CAUSE A HOE GON BE A HOE YA KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TOO MANY HOES ON THE TEAM TO BE SCKRESSIN ONE bytch YA DIGGGGGG??????????/
IDGAF WHAT A HOE WANNA DO CAUSE A HOE GON BE A HOE YA KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TOO MANY HOES ON THE TEAM TO BE SCKRESSIN ONE bytch YA DIGGGGGG??????????/
feelosofer
#ninergang
Because it's easier to cling to an illusion than face reality. Not because we have to examine the other person. But we have to examine ourselves.
My neck and my back
All Star
cuz it'll kill their dream of living the life with a woman who ain't like the rest of these hoes
another good question is why are women so offensive towards men who don't see them as being the idealized version of a woman? they always feel like men are scorned if we don't see them as being innocent angels
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Existential
Nothing really matters...
See, I want to get on this level. I try to develop emotional security when others do me wrong because I can't keep people from doing wrong. I can only control how I feel, so I want complete control of my feelings or the ability to heal from unwanted feelings. Control is the desire, but I try not superimpose this desire on others' lives. It's easy for a man to make that mistake and that's when a man becomes a tyrant: when he controls other people's lives for selfish reasons.
Simply put, we want to free ourselves from the idea that we have to change people so we can be happy. We want to free ourselves from wishing that some people were better. We have to change ourselves so that they can't make us unhappy with what they do.
But how do men guard their heart more effectively and learn to let go?
feelosofer
#ninergang
You go live more off your instincts. Most cheaters have had the red flags exposed the whole time, but we ignore them in the hopes that they are not true. You have to invest yourself in a relationship so it can grow, but you can't lose yourself in the process. It's more of a balancing act than moving one way or the other.