Piff Perkins
Veteran
The thing that truly angers me about this forum is how black women are so casually shat upon. I agree with the OP. Likewise I also see various threads shytting on black men. I thought most of us were black, why are we doing this?
I think the problem is that a lot of people of many colors tend to view things through their personal prism. If you grew up in a bad hood and your only perception of black women consists of single mothers, ridiculous weaves, anger issues, etc...you're gonna associate all black women like that.
And I think the other factor is a false sense of patriarchal bullshyt and ownership. As black men we do not "own" black women. If a black woman dates outsider her race she is not rejecting black men. Obviously there are c00ns out there who do, but that goes back to my first point about that personal prism. There are black women whose initial experiences with black men are negative. Mixed girls who have deadbeat black fathers who left the family, then the chick grows up not wanting to associate with anything black. That's ignorance and shouldn't be cosigned anymore than black men hating on black women should be cosigned.
I think the problem is that a lot of people of many colors tend to view things through their personal prism. If you grew up in a bad hood and your only perception of black women consists of single mothers, ridiculous weaves, anger issues, etc...you're gonna associate all black women like that.
And I think the other factor is a false sense of patriarchal bullshyt and ownership. As black men we do not "own" black women. If a black woman dates outsider her race she is not rejecting black men. Obviously there are c00ns out there who do, but that goes back to my first point about that personal prism. There are black women whose initial experiences with black men are negative. Mixed girls who have deadbeat black fathers who left the family, then the chick grows up not wanting to associate with anything black. That's ignorance and shouldn't be cosigned anymore than black men hating on black women should be cosigned.


@#1pick fukking failed. This is the most negative thread in history, lol
Who has the ability to create a positive thread we can build on

6 abortions tho?

...we're almost slaves in our country again brehs...y'all missed the opportunity 100 years ago to do something with us, dnt miss it again...