Simple solution to all of this. As a man, we have the right of approach and control over whom we ask for relationships (including the most important one, marriage). If you find that what is available around you is not to your liking, then go where you will find what you desire. They have to accept your offer too though, so make sure you are something they desire in return.
Let the birds, son-husbands, misandrists, simps, etc stew in their own cauldron of failure. Check them when they say something absolutely idiotic, yes. Waste time seeking to initiate confrontations with them, no.