We need to have a discussion….. because this IS NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT…

[Neuromancer]

Really men should be able to ask women straight up if they want to have sex, that would cut through all the bullshyt but they wouldn't like that either, and would find something wrong with that too, whether it's them being objectified, or the man being too crass, or whatever. It's not worth it anymore

Have you ever tried asking a woman that?

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

I don’t know if you are single… but if so at an opportune time try that out and let us know how it goes… a few times maybe if you can…. Cuz a lot of women find it awkward to discuss and just expect you to know the signs js

Naw if a woman wants you it isn't drying up. Since I have been single this year I have done what I typed with 6 women and it's been a success each time.

And I'll add the ages ranged from 21 to 34

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

You made the same mistake as the senator. You moved too fast.
You thought just having her in the crib was the green light, it's not.

I'm saying. nikkas don't know how to be smooth with it. It's a game of seduction and mental foreplay. You got to make her feel sexy and comfortable. When you make eye contact it should tell you when it's the right time to make the move

 

[AllHolosEve]

"An incident she “buried” until allegations against the supreme court justice Brett Kavanaugh triggered her memory years later."
"Abedin’s memory of her experience on the unnamed senator’s couch, she writes, was triggered when she read about Christine Blasey Ford “being accused of ‘conveniently’ remembering” her alleged assault."

-Wait. So she "buried" this shyt then her memory was "triggered" while reading about someone "conveniently remembering" a different assault. Then decided to write about it. How convenient of her to remember.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Have you ever tried asking a woman that?

most guys asks in a cool way like what's up can i get a hug, oh you not gonna great me, show some love, can i get a kiss.... something like that, and if it's all good then you do it no issue. then you go from there.

on the other hand of course it would just be rude to be like "can i fukk" to a colleague.
these guys projecting their awkwardness on yall whole gender lol

but a simple way of seeing this is to ask yourself what would you do if this was a superior at the company you worked for and asked you to have coffee. yall think its ok for him to come in for a kiss

 

[IGSaint12]

And there lies the issue at its core….you can’t have it both ways smh

It ends up being you have to ask her permission for everything. Kissing? Hugs? 2nd base? Yes to all that. I don't think most women want that tbh.

 

[Edub]

It ends up being you have to ask her permission for everything. Kissing? Hugs? 2nd base? Yes to all that. I don't think most women want that tbh.

Breh… they do not from my experience…nothing sexy about asking permission for everything all the time, and if that is the case it becomes almost as if intimacy is only pleasurable for men and women are only providers of it…. and we know that ain’t true, fr fr it’s all about leverage and control if that’s the expectation

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

It ends up being you have to ask her permission for everything. Kissing? Hugs? 2nd base? Yes to all that. I don't think most women want that tbh.

any other time the coli.com would be like "f dese hoes, ima do what i gotta do in my best interest, if dese hoes dont like the program they can kik rocks i aint courting no hoz ".
now alla sudden it's "omg bros what if she thinks it's weird that i ask for a kiss , will she still talk to me , ima do what i think they enjoy"

#bipolarposting lol

 

[IGSaint12]

any other time the coli.com would be like "f dese hoes, ima do what i gotta do in my best interest, if dese hoes dont like the program they can kik rocks i aint courting no hoz ".
now alla sudden it's "omg bros what if she thinks it's weird that i ask for a kiss , will she still talk to me , ima do what i think they enjoy"

#bipolarposting lol

I have no idea what you're talking about.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Been there bro .
And I'm going to tell u something that I shouldn't say here cause most these nikkaz on here don't know shyt....
But alot of these women have rape fantasies...
And I mean alotttt of them do.

This is the reason why chix be on some how they like a dude to pull their hair and choke them and shyt.
Some want you to do more than that smh.
I've had similar situations happen to me also.

Shorty wanted u to actually be aggressive and "make" her have sex... Pick her up and take it

You made the right choice.
Save any correspondence you ever had with that girl..
And always keep it.
Seriously bro

Picked up on this myself too. Honestly, I think think their kinks are weird. Some chicks want to get degraded and like you said “taken” and I don’t get it, especially bc it’s so common. I never judge and just chalk it up to them being wayyyyy freakier than me, but like what if a switch flip in them? I always try to be suuuuper clear w them girls

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Sex sometimes seems like much more trouble than it’s worth

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I have no idea what you're talking about.

ikr. that's that bipolar ish i see everyday on here. makes little sense to me
no offense to bipolars

 

[Apollo Creed]

most guys asks in a cool way like what's up can i get a hug, oh you not gonna great me, show some love, can i get a kiss.... something like that, and if it's all good then you do it no issue. then you go from there.

on the other hand of course it would just be rude to be like "can i fukk" to a colleague.
these guys projecting their awkwardness on yall whole gender lol

but a simple way of seeing this is to ask yourself what would you do if this was a superior at the company you worked for and asked you to have coffee. yall think its ok for him to come in for a kiss

lmfao man stfu

 

[VertigoKnight]

I'm going to guess the senator was older and ugly. So her guard was down. As she didn't expect him to pull a move like that.

But this wasn't even a date it was a work dinner.

TBH I wouldn't have even invited her up, but she was dumb as hell to going into a mans place late at night and not know what that hinted to him. But she was probably in networking mode and he was in mode.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This broad went back to this mf's apartment for "coffee" like we don't know what that means.. to watch tv?

I hope he kicked her ass out after that